This is when we see things in black and white categories. There is no grey area.
All-or-Nothing Thinking
This is when we apply simplistic and unfair definitions that are probably wrong or more likely incomplete on ourselves and others.
Labeling
She broke up with me last night. Now I'll never meet anyone.
All-or-Nothing Thinking OR What is Overgeneralization
This is when we see a single negative event as a part of a never-ending streak of failure. We use words like "always," "never," "everybody".
Overgeneralization
She did not say anything about my new haircut. She must think it is ugly!
Mind Reading
This happens when we blow a negative event out of proportion.
Magnification or Catastrophizing
She is moving to a new apartment because she does not like having me as a neighbor.
Personalization
This is when we conclude that someone is acting negatively towards us without checking it out or seeking other evidence.
Mind Reading
This is when we look at our strengths and trivialize them.
What is Minimization
I know she complimented me on my new outfit but she was just being nice.
Disqualifying the Positive OR What is Minimization
This is when we pick out one negative detail in a situation and dwell on it exclusively.
Mental Filter
I am mentally ill and cannot contribute anything to anyone.
Labeling