Definitions
Thoughts/Feelings/Behaviors
The Triangle
Situations
100

TH_______ is the process of using your mind to consider something. It can also be the product of that process: an idea or just the picture of what is going through your mind.

Thought/Thinking

100

I am angry

...Is this a thought, feeling, or behavior?

Feeling

100

True or False...

Feelings are a part of the cognitive triangle?

True

100

Your best friend hasn't spoken to you all day. Your thoughts are that they are ignoring you because they don't want to be your friend anymore.

What might your feelings and behaviors be?

Feelings:

Sad, Confused, Worried, Angry, Annoyed

Behaviors:

Try to make them talk to you, wait for them to come to you, talk about them behind their back, start a fight, etc.

200

A f________ is an emotional state or reaction.

A feeling

200

I ran away from home

...Is this a thought, feeling, or behavior?

Behavior

200

True or False...

Our feelings come directly from situations we experience or hear about.

False.

Our feelings actually come from our THOUGHTS about situations, events, or experiences. 

200

Your best friend hasn't spoken to you all day. Your thoughts are that they might have a lot on their mind.

What might your feelings and behaviors be?

Feelings:

Worried, Concerned, Empathetic, 

Behaviors:

Give them space, reach out to them

300

A b_________ is the way a person acts in response to a particular situation.

Behavior

300

I feel depressed

...Is this a thought, feeling, or behavior?

Feeling

300

True or False...

Choices are a part of the cognitive triangle?

False

300

You walk into the class and some other students immediately start laughing. You think that there must have been a funny joke that was told.

What might your feelings and behaviors be?

Feelings:

curious, happy, content, relaxed

Behaviors:

join the group, ask to participate, no interaction with the people

400

Define "situation"

the circumstance a person is in.

400

I feel like my life will never get better

...Is this a thought, feeling, or behavior?

Thought

400

True or False...

Behaviors are a part of the cognitive triangle?

True

400

You walk into the cafeteria and a whole table of people immediately start laughing. You think that the people must be laughing at you. 

What might your feelings and behaviors be?

Feelings:

insecure, sad, embarrassed, angry

Behaviors:

run away, cry, engage in conflict, avoid the group of people

500

Evidence-based treatment approach shown to help children, adolescents, and their caregivers overcome trauma-related difficulties, including child maltreatment. [BLANK] helps people address distorted or upsetting beliefs and attributions and learn skills to help them cope with ordinary life stressors.  

Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT)

500

I want to punch him in the face!

...Is this a thought, feeling, or behavior?

Thought

500

True or False...

Our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are not closely connected. 

False

500

Use the cognitive triangle to explain the thoughts, feelings, actions in the following situation.

Your brother walks into your room and wants to play with you on your computer game.  You think "He's always coming in and bothering me" and then tell him to "get out!"  You get yelled at for being mean to your brother. 

Answer.

Would another thought have lead to a better result? 

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