Communication Styles
Social Penetration Theory (SPT)
4 Horsemen
Sound Relationship House Model
Investment Model of Commitment
Zuck Facts
100

This communication style expresses needs and opinions clearly while respecting the rights of others.

Assertive communication

100

Sharing personal things about yourself to someone you trust in SPT is called this.

Self-disclosure

100

This “horseman” involves attacking a partner’s character rather than addressing a specific behavior.

Criticism

100
A relationship where a partner is always keeping score and expects the other to give back right away what was given is called this.

An exchange relationship

100

In the model, time, emotional energy, shared memories, and resources put into a relationship are known as this.

Investments

100

In her free time, Ms. Zuck loves playing this table top roleplaying game (TTRPG).

Dungeons and Dragons

200

This communication style involves avoiding expressing one’s needs or opinions, often to prevent conflict.

Passive communication 

200

Researchers studying self-disclosure must carefully define and quantify how much information participants share, demonstrating this research concept.

Measurement

200

In an argument with his fiancee, Jared responded to his fiancee's comments with an eye roll and repeated his fiancee's words in an obviously mocking voice. This is an example of which of the four horsement.

Contempt

200

A relationship where partners give without expectation simply because they care for each other is called this.

Communal relationship

200

Beth finds that she has invested a lot into her relationship, but still does not feel emotionally satisfied by her fiancee. According to the investment model of commitment, is she more or less likely to stay committed?

Less likely

200

Ms. Zuck used to work at this type of school in New Jersey, which may surprising considering what you know about her background.

A Catholic high school

300

This style of communication expresses anger or disagreement indirectly, often through sarcasm or subtle actions.

Passive-aggressive communication

300

Define Social Penetration Theory (SPT).

This theory explains how relationships develop through increasing levels of self-disclosure.

300

Researchers studying the four horsemen may accidentally see women as being naturally more manipulative than men. This is an example of what bias?

Gender bias

300

The sound relationship theory has two walls. Name one.

Trust or commitment

300

If research finds that higher investments predict stronger commitment, psychologists must still evaluate whether the study design allows them to determine a direct cause-and-effect relationship. This concerns which concept?

Causality

300

This is Ms. Zuck's middle name.

Nicole

400

Jared is in an argument with his fiancee. When his fiancee brings up their disappointment that Jared often cancels the plans they make together last minute, Jared yells: "God, you're just like your mother. I work all day, pay for everything we have, and you make me feel like a jerk for wanting some time to play video games." This is an example of what kind of communication style.

Aggressive communication

400

A researcher finds that couples who disclose more personal information report stronger relationships, but cannot conclude that disclosure directly caused relationship strength. This limitation relates to this concept.

Causality

400

Instead of engaging with the other person, this four horsemen tactic involves physically or emotionally withdrawing from the conversation.

Stonewalling

400

In this model, the foundation involves building detailed knowledge about a partner’s inner world, known as this concept.

Love maps

400

This component of the model refers to the positive feelings and rewards someone receives from a relationship.

Relationship satisfaction

400

How many siblings does Ms. Zuck have?

One, an older brother.
500

Beth and her fiancee can't agree on who should move into whose apartment once they get married. While discussing the matter, Beth says "I understand you feel really nostalgic about your apartment. I totally respect those feelings. I'm worried about the commute to work if I move in with you and it's important to me I can lessen the commute. Regardless, our relationship is more important to me than an apartment." The underlined is an example of what assertive communication strategy.

I-Statements

500

This is the first stage of SPT, often called "small talk".

The orientation stage

500

Most of Gottman's original research of the four horsemen theory used western, middle class, heterosexual couples. This is an example of what bias?

Sampling bias.

500

According to the model, healthy couples respond positively to small bids for attention, affection, or support known as this.

Turning toward

500

When someone has invested a lot of time, money, or effort into something and believes they have invested too much to leave, it is called this.

Sunken cost fallacy

500

Ms. Zuck attended this school for her undergrad.

Hamilton College

600

Bradbury and Fincham found that in a 1990 meta-analysis that happy couples engage in this, not blaming their partner or assuming they did something negative on purpose, when in conflict.

Relationship enhancing patterns

600

Many friendships stay at this stage of SPT.

The exploratory stage

600

As opposed to using this four horsemen tactic, Beth accepts what her fiancee is saying and takes responsibility for how she is perceived by him.

Defensiveness

600

A psychologist evaluating whether Gottman’s model is to reductionist is demonstrating this core IB psychology concept.

Perspective

600

If a person perceives many attractive partners outside the relationship, this component of the model is considered high.

Quality of alternatives

600

Ms. Zuck does not ride a scooter in Bermuda. Why?

She fell off and injured herself on one in 2021.

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