Active Listening
What does it mean to listen carefully to someone?
Paying attention to what someone is saying without interrupting
What is an "I" statement?
A way to talk about your feelings without blaming others.
What should you do first when you have a problem with someone or something they did?
Talk about it calmly and respectfully.
What is non-verbal communication?
Communicating without words, using body language or facial expressions
What does it mean to interrupt someone?
To speak while someone else is talking.
Show me how you would listen carefully to someone.
Looking at the person who is talking, nodding your head.
Finish this "I" statement: "I feel ___ when you ___ because ___".
Example: "I feel sad when you don't play with me because I want to spend time with you."
Name one way to calm down before solving a problem.
Take deep breaths, count to ten, take some time to yourself, etc.
Give one example of positive body language.
Smiling or giving a thumbs up.
Why shouldn't you use words like "always" or "never" when arguing?
Because they aren't usually true and can make the other person feel bad.
Why is listening important in a conversation?
So you understand what they are saying and show you care.
Why are "I" statements better than "You" statements?
They help you express your feelings without making others upset.
What is a good thing to remember when you are arguing?
Focus on the problem, not the person.
What can crossed arms mean?
It might mean someone is feeling defensive or closed off.
What is passive-aggressive behavior?
Acting out feelings indirectly instead of talking about them.
What can you do if you don't understand what someone said?
Ask them to repeat or explain it.
Change this sentence to an "I" statement: "You never help with chores!"
"I feel overwhelmed when I do chores alone because it's a lot of work."
How can you help solve a problem in a fair way?
Listen to each other's ideas and find a solution that works for both.
How can you show someone that you are interested in what they're saying without using words?
By nodding, smiling, facing them directly, leaning in, etc.
What can go wrong when you assume something without checking?
You might misunderstand the situation, create confusion, or cause unnecessary conflict.
How can you show you are listening without using words?
Nodding, making eye contact, or smiling.
Give an example of an "I" statement about feeling left out.
"I feel left out when you don't include me in your games because I want to play with you too."
What does it mean to find a "win-win" solution?
A solution that makes everyone happy.
How can you tell if someone is upset without them saying it?
By their facial expressions or body language, like frowning or slumping.
Why is it important to talk about your feelings instead of keeping them inside?
Talking about your feelings helps other understand you better, prevents misunderstandings, and can make you feel better. Keeping feelings inside can lead to bigger problems and frustration.