I couldn't find Granny Foo Foo this morning and I wasted ten minutes looking for her. You should have put her at her seat." "You are correct. I didn't have Granny Foo Foo at her usual table, but she requested to sit with Mrs. B today and I was accommodating her request."
What is fogging?
Two of the hallmarks of aggressive communication.
What are intimidation and anger?
Other acceptable answers include: inconsiderate of others needs, rights, and feelings, and lack of respect.
In this type of assertive communication, the message allows us to express our thoughts and feelings without putting the other person on the defensive.
What are "I" messages?
A type of aggression that is "cold", premeditated behavior used as a means to some other end. Example: some types of bullying behavior.
What is instrumental aggression?
A request is repeated over and over and over each time that that it is met with resistance in this type of assertive communication style.
What is repetition?
A type of aggression that does damage to another person’s peer relationships, such as social exclusion or rumor spreading.
What is relational aggression?
When the evaluator says "While you are very caring, would like to see you improve your decision-making ability," the nurse may respond, "I could use improvement in my decision-making ability, but I believe the quality of the care I deliver is excellent."
What is negative assertion?
A type of aggression that is intended to harm another person, such as hitting, kicking or threatening to beat someone up.
What is hostile aggression?
Communication between different healthcare personnel could be labeled this
What is interdisciplinary communication?
A typical formula for crafting an assertive "I" statement is to state, "When you [________________], I feel [insert how you feel].
What is "their behavior"?
The aggressor typically may get what they want through intimidation, but they will loose the ________ of others.
What is "respect"?
Statements that sound like accusations/blame, conveys judgement, put the other person on the defensive.
What are "You" statements?