Causes
Josh wants to go to the mall after school. Leonard want to go home and game. Neither thinks the other's plans sound fun.
What are different needs?
Andrea is mad at Phyllis for liking her enemy's post on social. When she tries to speak to Phyllis about it, Phyllis changes the subject.
What is avoidance?
Mark is furious with Karen for dissing him in front of his friends. He starts an argument with her right away.
What is not waiting to be calm?
This conflict resolution skills helps you understand the other person's perspective and share your own.
What is healthy communication
I can be broken, without being touched.
What is trust?
Liam heard from Noah that Timmy is mad at him for making fun of his track and feild results. Noah avoids Liam for three days.
What is poor communcation?
Bret and Lily haven't eaten all day and are starving! Bret wants Pizza and Lily wants Thai. After a moment of discussing, they agree to get Thai this week and Pizza next.
What is compromise?
What is jumping to conclusions/making assumptions?
What is the problem?
I have two sides, but I am not a coin.
What is conflict?
Jackie told a joke that makes fun of another person's identity. Freddy and Michael laughed. Miriam is livid and told Jackie off in front of everyone and refuses to speak to Freddy and Michael.
What is a difference is values?
Will aslo accept: Predjudice, beliefs.
Mr. Magoo has asked Zach, Millie and Rachel to create a presenation. At first, no one could agree on the topic, so instead, they combine their ideas into one.
What is collaboration?
Joan is angry at her sisters and says "You're the most annoying person in the world, you make everyone so annoyed!"
What is not using "I" statements.
Avoiding being __________________ can help speed up the resolution process.
What is defensive?
I can speak, but have no mouth. I can reproduce, but have no body.
What is an echo?
Ava thinks that Fruit Love Island is the best show every made and loves to talk about it. Emma thinks its super lame and is tired of hearing about it.
What is a difference of opinion?
Keith, Cheryl, Lizzie, Ruth and Thomas are on the same team. Ruth and Keith cannot agree on what to call their team. Ruth tells Keith that if he deosnt agree on her name, he cannot be on the team.
What is taking charge?
Maggie and Winston finally agree to sit down and talk about their differences. Winston taps his fingers and rolls his eyes while Maggie is speaking, often talking over her.
What is Not listneing?
Deep breathes and taking breaks can help you be in a good space to begin resolving the issue.
What is calm?
I can fill a room without taking up space
What is light?
Every single day, Will decides where his friend group will go for lunch. Pat is sooooo tired of KFC and refuses to go.
What is lack of compromise?
Tatiana and Tabitha are best friends who are currently in a fight. Tabitha wanted to resolve things face to face, but Tatiana asked if it could be over text. Tabitha agreed.
What is accomodating
Kevin senses that JoJo is mad at him. When he asks, JoJo says "Nothing, I'm fine...." and walks away. The rest of the day, JoJo continues to give him the cold shoulder.
This strategy helps you avoiding using blaming language.
What are "I" statements.
I’m built of cold shoulders, unspoken words, and spite,
I grow in the shadows, hidden from light.
No armies I summon, no swords do I hold,
Yet I keep the warmest relationships cold.
What is tension?