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You were rewarded at school but now your friend is ignoring you because they wanted that reward.
Ask if they want to talk, ask them if they need space, etc
What is the outcome if conflict resolution goes positively? What is the outcome if it goes negativly?
Stronger relationship, if handled peacefully.
Damaged relationship, if not handled properly.
What are the 3 communication styles?
Assertive, Passive, Agressive
What does GIVE standfor and what is it used for?
It is used to maintain good relationships, it stands for be Gentle, show Interest, Validate (Use an) Easy manner.
What are the 5 senses
Touch, sight, smell, hearing, touch.
Every time your friend comes over they are really rough with your things (throwing, slamming, bending)
Talk with them and set a boundary ("Can you please be more gentle with my stuff")
True or False: You should keep bringing up the conflict after it’s been resolved
False
What is passive communication?
How to stay true to yourself during conflict?
What gets wet while drying?
A towel
A student bumps into you in the hall and knocks you back, how should you handle this?
Tell them they ran into you and you didn't like it, talk to an adult.
What are "I" statements?
"I feel [emotion] when [specific situation] because [reason]"
What is agressive communication
Prioritizing your own needs at the expense of others, yelling, fighting, unwilling to compromise.
False, there are some times when you do not have to forgive, and some times when forgivness is necessary. Each situation is different.
What can you break, even if you never pick it up or touch it?
A promise
Your best friend spread an untrue rumor about you to the whole school.
Talk to your friend about it; use "I" statements; Communicate to find the root cause; maybe reevaluate the friendship.
How do you listen reflectivly?
Before responding to someone, repeat back what the other person is trying to say in your own words.
emphasizes the importance of both peoples’ needs; Clearly states needs and wants; Willing to compromise
What are some ways you can show interest (even if you are not always interested)
What is the chemical formula for water?
H2O
You're being blamed for breaking the classroom pencil sharpener but you did not do it.
Tell the teacher or another trusted adult.
What are the steps to come to a compromise?
1. Identify problem 2. Open communication 3. Brainstorm solutions 4. Evaluate solutions.
What is the most effective communciation style and why?
Assertive, because it balences everyone's needs in a safe and respectful manner.
What can you use to guide the converstation during a conflict?
Use the DEAR MAN acronym: Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce, be Mindful, Appear confident, and negotiate.
What is the one letter that does not appear in any US state?