conflict
What is conflict?
a problem, an issue, a disagreement with others or ourselves
Give me an example of blaming someone for your actions
Telling the person you never, you always, it's your fault
If the solution did not work, you need to try another one: True or False
True
What is a feeling we may have when having an internal conflict?
Anxiety, fear, sadness, anger, and confusion
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Say the problem-without blaming.
What is resolution?
solving a problem
Why should we not blame someone else for our actions?
Who can you ask for help when you are trying to solve a problem?
Teacher, friend, family member, counselor.
Conflict resolution should include appropriate ways to solve problems. What does appropriate mean
To solve problems in a non-violent, non-angry way. Safe, respectful, and suitable for the problem.
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Think of a solution that is safe and respectful.
If you understand how the other person feels when solving your problem does it make it easier to try to find a solution?
yes
When exploring solutions to a problem, you should think of what
the outcomes; good and bad consequences
When you are mad, what do you need to do before solving your problem
Take a deep breath, walk away, calm down, and cool off
What is something you can do in order to have a successful conflict resolution?
Breath, cool off, share and listen, take responsibility, brainstorm ideas, choose a solution, agree on a solution, forgive/thank/apologize
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Explore the consequences. What would happen...
what is internal conflict
a problem you are dealing with within yourself
When thinking about a solution to a problem, it should be
The solution should be safe and respectful.
When you yell at someone for trying to help you, you walk away, and then come back. Is it okay not to apologize?
No, you should always take responsibility for your actions, and apologize.
What does it mean to brainstorm ideas when resolving conflict
To discuss all ideas that are safe and supported by all involved
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Make a plan. Pick the best solution.
Give an example of internal conflict
Talking negatively to yourself, self-doubt, and comparing yourself to others.
What does respectful mean?
Showing consideration and regard for someone or something.
What are two things that will help you when you are trying to solve a conflict
Active listening and respectful communication.
What is compromise? Give an example.
When you both agree to get some of what you want, but not everything. Such as taking turns.
Before you use STEP?
You need to take a breath.