conflict
What does the word conflict mean
a problem, an issue, a disagreement with others or ourselves
What is an example of a blaming word, aka a "You" statement
never, always, your fault
If the idea does not work, you need to try another one: True or False
True
What is a feeling we may have when faced with conflict
anxiety, fear, sadness, anger, confusion
What is resolution
solving a problem
Why should we not use blaming words
They can instantly make the other person feel attacked and escalate a conflict
What does the S in STEP stand for?
Say the problem
Conflict resolution should include peaceful ways to solve problems. What does peaceful mean
in a non-violent, non-angry way. showing calm and kindness
If you understand how the other person feels when solving your problem does it make it easier to try to find a solution?
yes, similar to empathy (putting yourself in someone elses shoes)
Name the types of communication
Passive, Assertive, Aggressive communication
What does the T in STEP stand for?
Think of Solutions
What are some ways you can cool down before trying to solve a problem?
Take deep breaths, take a walk, get fresh air, listen to music, work out, draw, read
What creates different viewpoints?
Different Perspectives based upon your own experiences
When thinking about solutions to problems, they should be
Respectful and Safe
What does the E in STEP stand for?
Explore Consequences
what does it mean to brainstorm ideas when resolving conflict
to discuss all ideas that are safe and supported by all involve
Give an example of internal conflict
Example. I really want to join in with my friends fooling around in class but then I won't get to go to recess
Being safe, respectful and firm with our actions and words
What does the P in STEP stand for?
Pick a solution
What is compromise?
When you agree to get some of what you want but not everything