Family
Marissa doesn't want to clean her room, but her mom says she will be grounded if she doesn't clean her room.
express emotions, negotiate the time for cleaning up room. Ask for help to clean up the room.
Ana and Emily get into a heated argument about using each other's things without asking.
Take space from each other give yourselves time to cool off. Then create boundaries with each other (ask for permission).
What is the collaboration conflict resolution style?
Searching for a solution that meets both parties needs.
You and your brother always argue about who gets the most the time to get ready in the bathroom.
Compromise- set a timer for each person (each person gets a certain number of minutes).
Manny and Drew get into an argument because Manny won't let Drew cheat off his test.
Collaboration- Offer to study with them; or encourage them to seek tutoring.
What is the avoiding conflict resolution style?
Pretend conflict doesn't exist; Avoids confrontation at all costs.
Your little sister keeps going into your room without permission, which makes you become frustrated.
compromise- lil sis can only go in room unless you're in there as well or if she asks.
Khia and Terry get into a heated argument because Terry keeps making plans to hang out and then cancels them.
both parties express emotions, then collaborate with each other with times to hang out that will accommodate both parties.
What is the accommodating conflict resolution style?
Playing down conflict (Trying to keep the harmony)
Dad starts yelling at you for not taking out the trash when he asked. You start to get upset and tears form.
Take time to yourself to cool off. Express your emotions and feelings with parent. (Listen to each other's pov)
During lunch you and a friend start arguing about something, and it gets pretty heated. And then the bell rings, and you both are pretty angry or upset.
Give each other space. try to revisit conversation when both parties have cooled off. (Apologize to one another)
What is the competing conflict resolution style?
One individual seeks to resolve the issue despite anyone's feelings, thoughts, or opinions. (My way or highway)
You and your cousin always get into an argument about what to watch on tv.
compromise- each person gets a set amount of time to watch whatever they want.
You have a crush on someone, so you tell a friend. A week later, your friend starts dating that person.
express emotions, create boundaries
What is the compromise conflict resolution style?
Both parties accommodate by acknowledging and accepting the other person's Pov. (Come together and give in)