Conflict
Scenarios Pt. 1
Healthy vs Unhealthy
Appropriate vs Inappropriate
Miscellaneous
100

What is the definition of conflict?

A argument or disagreement with someone.

100

Your classmate keeps asking you if he or she can copy your homework, but you don't feel comfortable allowing him or her to do so. What do you do?

Express that you are uncomfortable and tell them no.

100

Is yelling a healthy or unhealthy way to solve conflict?

unhealthy

100

Your friend complains that you don't spend enough time together. You don't stay away intentionally. You just happen to have a very busy life and don't have time to hang out 24/7. Your friend does not want to be your friend anymore.

Try to understand
100

What is the conflict trap?

when someone tries to get you upset

200

Is all conflict bad?

No. Some conflict teaches you how to manage situations.

200

You get into an argument with your best friend and now he or she is playing the "silent treatment" with you. What should you do? 

Leave them be until they won't to talk or approach them and apologize. 

200

Is saying you disagree a healthy or unhealthy way

Both depending on how you do it.
200

A student from your school constantly bullies you during recess. You have been ignoring this person for a while to avoid problems. However, the student continues to bully you despite your peaceful attempts to avoid conflict.

Notify a teacher

200

If you saw someone posted negatively about you on facebook what would you do

ask them to take it down. Notify a parent

300

Should you involve yourself if you see two of your friends arguing?

No, unless it escalates and you need to step in.

300

You are invited to your friend's birthday party, but you don't have money to buy him a gift. You're embarrassed to go empty handed.

Tell your friend you are unable to bring a gift and ask if you can still go.

300

Is screaming healthy or unhealthy?

Unhealthy

300

Your parents do not approve of your circle of friends and will not allow you to hang out with them after school on weekends. You think your friends are the best people in your life right now.

Try to understand your parents pov. Spend time with them during school hours. 

300

Why should you be a leader during conflict

so you make sure the conflict doesn't get worse.

400

What is the best thing to be when you are in a conflict? (Think back on the video)

A leader

400

You lent your classmate money for lunch, in which he or she promised to pay you back, but never did. What do you do?

Approach them and ask why they haven't paid you back or notify an adult.

400

Is finding the solution a healthy or unhealthy way of resolving conflict

healthy

400

You are scheduled to present your science project on Friday. You are a very shy and quiet person and feel very uncomfortable about having to present in front of your class. 

Talk to your teacher and see if there is another way to present. 

400

What do you do if your parents ground you for something you deem unreasonable.

Listen to them.

500

If you can not find a solution to the problem what should you do?

Seek mediation

500

You have a huge secret you need to get off your chest, but you trust no one enough to tell them about it.

Keep it to yourself.

500

Is seeking help a healthy or unhealthy way of solving conflict?

healthy

500

You completely disagree with the grade one of your teachers gave you on you report card.

Ask your teacher why you received that grade.

500

what is the difference between healthy and unhealthy ways of resolving conflict?

one is the right way and the other is not

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