Kelso's Choices 1
What is a SMALL problem?
A problem a kid can handle on their own.
What is a BIG problem?
A problem that takes an adult to help.
Talk it out
VERBAL
Act out how you can COOL OFF
All I need to say is "sorry" when apologizing?
FALSE ( You need to be specific on what you are sorry for!)
What does it mean to wait and COOL OFF?
Find a place alone that you can cool off from being angry for 5-10 minutes.
When should you WALK AWAY?
When you are feeling angry (ready to flip your lid!)
Go to another game
NONVERBAL
Act out WALKING AWAY
Breathing is a way I can cool off?
TRUE
What would be happening if you need to GO TO ANOTHER GAME?
The game has already started or you have an issue with someone playing the game.
How can you IGNORE someone?
By letting what they say slide off your back, by pretending to not listen, and not taking the bait when they make you mad. We don't ignore to be mean!
Make a deal
VERBAL
Act out MAKING A DEAL
If the game has already started, I don't have to go to another game?
FALSE
How should you tell someone to STOP?
Please, stop ________
How can you APOLOGIZE to someone?
I'm sorry for causing you to feel ______ when I _____
Walk Away
NONVERBAL
Act out APOLOGIZING
When talking things out, I need to use "I messages?"
TRUE
What kind of messages can you use in TALK IT OUT?
" I messages"- I feel ______ when you ________
What can you do when you can't MAKE A DEAL?
rock, paper, scissors
Cool off
NONVERBAL
Act out TALKing IT OUT with someone
If someone won't make a deal with me, I don't have anything else I can do?
FALSE (Rock, paper, scissors!)