Conflict
What does the word conflict mean?
a problem, an issue, a disagreement with others or ourselves
What is resolution?
Solving a problem.
True or False: If the idea does not work, you need to try another one.
True
Why should you solve problems with others?
So that we can have friends, be happy, and live our best life.
Your friend wants to swing but you want to slide. How can you solve the problem?
......
What is a feeling we may have when faced with conflict?
Anxiety, fear, sadness, anger, confusion, embarrassment
What is Compromise?
To make a deal with someone so that you agree on how to solve a problem. You agree to get some of what you want but not everything
Who is someone you can ask to help you solve a problem?
Teacher, friend, family member
Conflict resolution should include peaceful ways to solve problems. What does peaceful mean?
In a non-violent, non-angry way. Showing calm and kindness.
Sally and Susie both want to be team captain. How can they resolve their conflict?
Talk it out, compromise, make a deal
True or false? Sometimes there is no right or wrong...just different.
True!
Give an example of an I-Message.
I feel....
I don't like it when...
If you understand how the other person feels when solving your problem does it make it easier to try to find a solution?
Yes! (That is called empathy.)
Why is it important to discuss and learn about conflict resolution?
Because conflict happens with all of us and learning to to resolve it is a skill. Understanding/learning about it increases our knowledge and awareness of it.
What would you do if the person next to you was talking and you couldn't focus on your work?
ask them to stop, ask them to move, move yourself
What is an example of a blaming word?
never, always, your fault
How do you Collaborate in conflict resolution?
Put your ideas together to come up with a solution that works for everyone. A win-win!
When you are angry, what do you need to do before solving your problem?
Stop, calm down, cool off
When exploring choices, you should think of what?
The outcomes; good and bad consequences
You are being excluded from your group of friends, what should you do?
Talk it out, share, listen, find others to play with
Why should we not use blaming words?
They can instantly make the other person feel attacked
What does Accomodating mean?
Not voicing your opinion and accept whatever solution, even if you don't like it!
Two things that will help when you're trying to solve a conflict?
What is listening and treating everyone with respect? Also, courage.
When thinking about solutions to problems, they should be...
Safe and respectful
Your friend told you that your BEST friend has been talking about you behind your back. What do you do?
Get the facts. Ask your best friend what happened. Do not blame. Talk it out.