Empathy
What is empathy?
Understanding someone else's emotions, point of view, or perspective. Putting yourself in someone else's shoes.
What does it mean to compromise?
Wanting to find the best solution that works for all sides even if it's not your number one preference.
What is the best way to express your point of view in a conflict situation?
Using a calm and assertive voice to express your feelings.
Who was involved in the conflict?
The Yooks and the Zooks. (It's an intergroup crisis)
Name two Agamim virtues and tell us what your favorite one is.
Temperance, Wisdom, Gratitude, Fortitude, E Pluribus Unum, Joyfulness and Liberty.
How could you show empathy to a new student?
You could offer to show them around. You can ask them questions about themselves. You could help to make sure they understand Agamim's rules and schedules.
True or False: You can have a conflict with someone and still be respectful with one another?
TRUE
Why do you think compromise is important in resolving conflicts?
Compromising shows that you are willing to meet halfway and find the best solution for everyone, not just yourself.
Why are the two sides fighting?
They disagree on the best way to do something (Butter bread)
Who usually sits at the front desk and helps us with everything in the school?
Ms. Warosh (She knows everything!)
Your friend just tried out for the basketball team and didn't make it. How could you respond to them?
You could tell them that they were brave for trying out, and they can continue to practice and try again next year
When thinking about a solution to a problem, it should be...
Safe and respectful
What can you do to resolve a conflict that arises in a group project at school?
Make sure everyone has the same chance to share their perspectives without interrupting, make sure the work is evenly divided, honor the diversity of ideas and ask for help if needed.
Who taught the Zooks and the Yooks about the way to butter their bread?
They learned it in their school, community and homes.
Name four things you would see in the social work office.
Ms. Davis, Ms. Baird, Habuki Dogs, LOTS of uno games, comfy chairs, mini fridge, maps, big red cabinet full of games, window facing the parking lot, etc.
How do you think empathy can help in resolving conflicts?
Understanding perspectives, reducing tension, building trust, finding common ground and promoting cooperation.
Who can you ask for help when you are trying to solve a problem?
A teacher, a trusted friend, a parent or a counselor/school social worker. It most likely depends on who the conflict involves.
Why do you think it's important to consider the size of the problem in a conflict?
If conflicts aren't addressed when they are small and easily resolved, they can grow into larger issues that can have negative effects.
What happened regarding the weapons the Zooks and Yooks used?
The weapons kept getting bigger and more destructive.
How long has Agamim been a school?
How do you think our school could become more empathetic?
Active listening, asking for student's feedback, volunteering to help others and reflecting on emotions.
When you are mad, what do you need to do before resolving the conflict?
Calm down, collect your thoughts and write down ideas and seek help if you get stuck.
Why is it important to know how to effectively solve conflict?
There will always be conflicts and we need to know how to work through it in ways that produce healthy collaboration and relationships.
How does the Butter Battle relate to historical and present-day conflicts?
The Butter Battle was based off of the events and occurred during the Cold War period. Today there are similar conflicts between countries and political groups.
What is in Ms. Scobbie's mug at all times?
Tea