conflict
What is conflict?
a problem, an issue, a disagreement with others or ourselves
Give me an example of blaming someone for your actions
telling the person you never, you always, its your fault
If the solution did not work, you need to try another one: True or False
True
What is a feeling we may have when having an internal conflict?
anxiety, fear, sadness, anger, confusion
What is 'bullying' and why is it wrong?
Repeatedly hurting or scaring someone on purpose; it’s wrong because it makes others feel unsafe and unhappy.
What is resolution?
solving a problem
Why should we not blame someone else for our actions?
What can you use for help when you are trying to solve a conflict?
Peace Path
What is a Peace Path?
Maria's favorite pencil goes missing from her desk. She sees John using a pencil that looks exactly like hers. Maria feels upset and accuses John of stealing her pencil.
1. Maria should be in the green zone and calm when she approaches John about the pencil.
If you understand how the other person feels when solving your problem does it make it easier to try to find a solution? (yes or no)
yes
When exploring solutions to a problem, you should think of what
the outcomes; good and bad consequences
What can you do if you see two friends having a disagreement?
Encourage them to use the peace path or ask a teacher for help.
What should you do if you disagree with what the other person is saying during a conflict?
Stay calm, listen to their side, and then share your thoughts respectfully.
A group of students are playing soccer at recess. Jamie and Alex both want to be the team captain, but only one can lead the team. They start arguing and the game stops.
Questions:
Rock Paper Scissors, vote, take turns etc.
True or False: You can have conflict with someone and still be respectful with one another?
When thinking about a solution to a problem, it should be
safe and respectful
When you yell at someone for trying to help you, you walk away, and then come back. Is it okay to not fix the issue?
No, you should always take responsibility for your actions, and try to make it right.
What zone do you need to be in when using the Peace Path?
Green Zone
Three students, Lily, Max, and Ben, are working on a group project. Lily feels that Max and Ben are not contributing enough, while Max and Ben feel that Lily is bossy.
Questions:
Use the Peace Path, better communication etc.
True or False: When I feel angry I should go yell and someone to feel better.
FALSE: When you feel yourself getting angry you can take a deep breath, go to the calming corner, use a fidget tool etc.
What does respectful mean?
Being safe, and showing respect towards someone else.
What are two things that will help you when you are trying to solve a conflict
Listening and treating everyone with respect
What is compromise?
When you agree to get some of what you want but not everything
During lunch, Sarah and Emma argue over who gets to sit next to their friend Chloe. Both girls feel hurt and left out.
Questions: