Act it Out
A scholar behind you keeps poking you in line.
Use an “I feel” statement to tell the scholar makes you feel when they do that.
I feel____ when you____.
Pushing someone is a good way to resolve conflict.
False. It is never ok to put hands on another scholar.
What does "competing" mean in conflict?
Someone wins and someone loses.
You want to play a game but your friend wants to play a different game.
How would a zebra handle that situation?
The zebra would compromise.
Is this effective?
What is respect?
-Treating others the way you want to be treated
-Showing kindness
-Like yourself enough to be yourself
-Accepting others the way they are
A scholar calls you a name at recess.
Use an “I feel” statement to tell the scholar makes you feel when they do that.
I feel_____ when you____ because____.
Competing is a win/win situation when there is a conflict between two scholars?
False. Competing is a win/lose situation.
What does "avoiding" mean in terms of conflict?
You don’t like arguments so you just move away from the problem.
A scholar made fun of you during class.
How would a turtle hand this situation?
A turtle would avoid and ignore the situation.
Is this effective?
What is active listening?
To give your full attention to a person speaking to you.
Your friend always picks the games you play at recess and doesn't let you pick.
Use an I feel statement to resolve the situation.
I feel____ when you____.
Compromising is a helpful way to resolve conflict because everyone wins a little bit.
True. When you want to find a solution that works best for everyone it is a compromise.
What does "accommodating" mean?
You don’t voice your opinion and accept whatever solution is presented to you even if you don't like it.
A scholar is cheating at four square.
How would a lion handle this situation.
If that an effective way to handle the situation?
They would be competitive.
It is not the best way to handle the situation as it could make it worse.
Fire alarm at school is an example of what size of problem?
Huge
A scholar pushes you while at recess.
How would you resolve the conflict?
What size problem is that?
I feel statements.
Medium problem, it may be good to find an adult if the scholar will not stop.
Conflict is:
When two or more people or groups have different needs, goals, or interests, or are stuck in a situation.
True.
What is conflict resolution?
A way to resolve conflict.
A scholar wants you to break a school rule.
How would a chameleon handle this situation?
Is this an effective way to handle the situation?
A chameleon would go with it to be accommodating to the other person.
This is not an effective way to handle the situation as it would cause you to get into trouble.
You broke a pencil during class.
What is the size of this problem?
Tiny - Small