Scenerios
Handling Conflict
When to Tell an Adult
True or False
What should you say?
100
Someone made a face at you. What should you do?
Ignore, Talk it Out, Postpone, Avoid, Use Humor, or Get Help
100

Can you take your words back?

No! You can try but what is said has been said

100

Someone threatens to hurt you or someone else

Tell an adult

100

There is a difference between Strong words and Mean words

True

100

Someone insults your hairstyle.

Well, I like my hair so that is all that matters.

200
You are playing a game and you both want to go first. What should you do?
Chance, compromise, take turns, negotiate
200

Is it ever okay to get physical?

NO! Even in self-defense this should be a last resort

200

Someone took your spot on the computer, you told them that you were using it. They gave you your spot back and apologized. 

No need to tell an adult- they handled is respectfully

200

If someone only has a small scratch, there is no need to tell an adult

False, adults are there to keep everyone safe. A small scratch could still need medical attention. 
200

Someone tells a classmate to "shut up because they are annoying "

That is not nice, do not tell people to shut up, they are not annoying


Tell an adult

300
You and your friend have not been as close lately. What should you do?
Talk it out
300

What can you do to calm down? Name 3

Deep breaths, walk away, count to 10, draw/color, talk to a friend

300

You saw someone get pushed on the playground. The person who was pushed looks hurt. The person who pushed them apologized.  

Tell an adult because the person is hurt and might need medical care.  

300

If two people who were arguing resolve it and ,make up you should still tell an adult

False, if everyone is happy and no one is hurt, no need! They handled it on their own. 

300

The teacher is talking, but you can not hear because the people behind you are talking 

Excuse me, I can not hear the teacher, could you please stop talking 

400
One of your friends was teasing you and things went too far and now you are mad. What should you do?
Talk it out, Postpone
400
What is the hardest step of handling conflict?
Listening to the other person 
400

You hear people arguing in the bathroom, and it sounds heated. They both leave the bathroom but look upset. 

Tell an adult. The adult can help mediate before things escalate. 

400

If you see a fight, it is okay to ignore it

False, you should not get involved, but you should tell an adult. Someone could get severely hurt. 

400

You fell, and your friend laughed at you. You are mad because it is not funny. 

That actually really hurt. Don't laugh, my hurting myself is not funny. If you fell, I would not laugh, I would help you up. 

500
You heard someone whispering and you think you heard your name mentioned. What should you do?
Ignore, Talk it out, Postpone, Avoid, Use Humor
500

What are the four steps to handle conflict?

1) Stop 2) Watch your words 3) Listen to the other person 4) finding a solution

500

You and your friend get into a heated argument. You both push each other, but then you both apologize. 

If one of you is hurt, tell an adult so you can get medical care. 

If no one is hurt, you resolved the conflict on your own- no need to tell an adult. 

500

Your friend pushed you, and you pushed them back. You are still mad, but you are both just ignoring each other. You do not need to tell an adult because you are ignoring each other. 

False, an adult can help you resolve the problem 

500
Your playing tag and someone pushes you really hard. You fall and get hurt

"That hurt, can you help me up?" "Next time do not push so hard, someone can get hurt" "There is no need to push so hard" "I wont play with you if you are pushing people"


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