Flexible or rigid thinking?
Your brother steals the remote from you, saying he wants to change what you are watching because he is bored. You offer to compromise with him by taking turns.
Flexible thinking! Compromising is a great way to solve a conflict.
Your friend gets you a present and you say "I love it so much, thank you for thinking of me!"
Say it: Compliments are great to give to friends!
Someone is being bullied
Ask them if they are okay, calmly ask the person bullying to stop, tell an adult.
What is compromising? When should we compromise?
Making an agreement that makes both people happy, to resolve a conflict. We can compromise when one person wants one thing, and someone else wants another. You can make an agreement to make both people happy.
Which princess has the most siblings?
Ariel
A manager is yelling at their employee at the store you are at. You yell at the manager and tell them they are being mean.
Rigid thinking. Although the manager may be mean, it is important to calmly approach the situation. You can ask if the person being yelled at is okay.
Someone is talking loudly in a mall. You say "Do you know how to be quiet?"
Think it: Malls are usually very busy, and people might be loud. We can take deep breaths and walk away if the volume gets too loud.
Someone is cheating during a game.
Calmly remind them of the rules. If they keep cheating, find another game to play!
When should we take deep breaths?
When we feel frustrated to help us calm down.
Who was the first ever disney princess?
Snow White
Your schedule changes, you cry because it is not the same as before.
Rigid thinking. It is okay and normal when our schedule changes! We can take deep breaths, ask questions, and tell ourselves that we will figure it out.
Someone says something you do not like. You say "That really hurts my feelings, can you please not say that to me?"
Say it: Kindly and politely expressing your feelings is important and can lead to resolving a conflict.
Your friend says: "I do not want to talk to you right now!"
Take a deep breath, walk away, come back later and let them know how you feel.
When should we walk away?
When we get frustrated, when the other person is not listening, when the conflict escalates.
What does Belle's father do for work?
He is an inventor
Your friend is being mean to you. You ask what is wrong and tell them how it hurts your feelings.
Flexible thinking! Asking your friend what is wrong can help them open up about their feelings, and let them know that you are there for them. Expressing your feelings is a great way to resolve conflict!
You eat at a friend's house. You say "Your food smells kind of funny"
Think it: This can come off as rude and disrespectful, especially if they are making food for you!
Your friend wants to go to the park, but you want to go to the mall.
Make a compromise, "we can go to the park today and the mall next time"
When should we ask for help?
When we do not know what to do to solve a conflict. When someone might get hurt.
What does Tiana want to open?
Her own restaurant
You get your order at a fast food place, and they made it wrong. You yell at the person who made it and throw your food on the ground.
Rigid thinking. Everyone makes mistakes. You can politely tell the worker that this is not what you ordered, and ask them to make a new one.
You drop your wallet, and someone picks it up for you. You say "Thank you"
Say it: Thanking someone for doing a good deed is kind.
Your friend is crying because a teacher yelled at her.
Comfort your friend, ask what happened.
How should we say what we are thinking/feeling?
"I-Feel" statements, being kind, polite, and respectful.
What is Merida's goal?
To change her fate