Getting Along
Respecting Differences
Working Together
No-Bullying Behaviors
Accountability
100
Someone made a face at you while you were irritated. What could you do?
Ignore them, Talk it Out, Avoid the person, Use Humor
100
A kid in your neighborhood is bullying you for your new glasses/hair cut/clothes, etc. This hurts your feelings. What I message could you use to tell them your feelings are hurt?
I feel _______ when ________________. I need _________. I feel upset when you're making fun of my glasses. I need you to stop.
100
You are working on chores and one of your siblings is not doing what they need to do. What should you do?
Remind them that they have things they need to do, but don't push them. They are in charge of their own actions. Let a parent know so they can decide what to do.
100
Someone is being mean and calling you names. What should you do?
Ignore what you can. Ask them to stop. Sit with people who can help you stay calm and will not be mean to you. Tell an adult.
100
You are doing something that you know your parents don't want you to do? A sibling sees you and says they are going to tell. This makes you angry. What should you do?
Stop doing what you are doing. Use a coping skill. Try to disengage with your sibling. If they tell your parents, take responsibility for your actions.
200
You are playing a game and you both want to go first. What could you do?
Chance, compromise, take turns, negotiate
200
There are a group of kids on the playground from your class who are playing soccer and they tell you that you can't play because you aren't good enough. How would you handle the situation?
You could go find something else to do. You could talk to them and let them know you don't think this is fair. You could make a joke and walk away.
200
You are playing a game with some of your friends or your family. One of the players is really angry that you won and is not being a good sport about it. What should you do?
Watch your words to be sure you're not bragging. Let them know that it's okay to lose and wish them better luck next time. Ignore them until they calm down. Remind them it's just a game.
200
You see someone doing something that they know they shouldn't be doing. This person threatens to hurt you if you tell on them.
Tell an adult - if someone is threatening you this isn't safe.
200
You and your sibling are fighting and you push your sibling into the table--knocking a vase onto the floor. You are both responsible. What should you do?
You should both take accountability. It happened because you were BOTH fighting, not just one of you. Tell your parents what happened. Accept consequences for breaking the vase.
300
You and your friend have not been as close lately. How could you approach a conversation about this with your friend?
Use I messages. Let them know what's bothering you calmly without blaming them for the distance. Tell them how important it is you try to still be friends.
300
You just got a new haircut and it is very different from your original look. You're worried that someone might make fun of it. You walk into the classroom and a student laughs and points at you. What should you do?
Use humor, ignore them, ask them to stop laughing
300
You and your sibling have some free time to play a game or watch TV and you both want to use the same thing. What should you do?
Chance - rock/paper/scissors, flip a coin to decide Compromise - find a win/win solution Take turns, ask a parent to make sure the time is fair.
300
You see one of your friends or siblings being picked on by someone. What is a healthy way that you can help?
Be a friend. Go up to your friend and make sure they're okay. Use humor or change the subject. Make sure you don't join in these behaviors. Be the "bigger person".
300
You don't turn in your homework and the teacher asks you where it is. What should you do?
Let your teacher know that you don't have it. Take responsibility for forgetting/not completing your homework.
400
One of your friends or siblings was teasing you and things went too far and now you are mad. What should you do?
Use anger management strategies to calm down. What can you use to feel better? (coping skills) When calm, let them know that they went too far.
400
You tried to make a joke to one of your friends or siblings. They did not take your joke the way you meant it and you hurt their feelings without trying. What should you do?
Apologize, Talk it out and let them know you didn't mean to hurt their feelings.
400
You are trying to tell your parents a story about something that happened today. In the middle of your story, your sibling keeps interrupting you and you are starting to get mad. What should you do?
Talk it out. Use an I message to let them know how you're feeling. "I'm feeling frustrated when you keep interrupting. I need you to let me have a chance to share my ideas and stories."
400
A "friend" of yours is constantly making fun of you in front of other people but is nice to you when you are both alone. You are confused and hurt by this friend's actions. What should you do?
Talk about it with the "friend." Let them know it's not okay for them to be so mean to you in front of others and that this is crossing the line. Decide if it's worth trying to be friends with someone who is treating you like that. Think about what a real friend would do.
400
Your friend let you borrow one of his video games and now you can't find it. He is upset. What should you do?
Apologize for losing it. Talk it out. Share (one of yours). You need to let your parent know and get help looking for it or replacing it. If you borrowed it, you're responsible for it.
500
Your siblings are telling you what to do and this makes you upset. What should you do?
Ignore it if you can. Think of the best solution and the possible outcomes of your actions. Let a parent know what happened.
500
A new student just joined your class from another country and you assumed he was from Mexico because he was Hispanic but he is really from El Salvador. This student was very offended. What should you do?
Apologize to him, talk it out and let him know you were not trying to be offensive, be more aware next time and not make the same quick judgments
500
You are playing a game that requires you to be divided up into teams of 2. You have to be paired with someone you don't want to work with. What should you do?
Stop and think about how that person would feel if you complained about having to work with them. Recognize that life isn't always fair and we have to work together sometimes so just deal with it.
500
Someone started a rumor about you that was not true and very hurtful. You know who started it. What should you do?
After you've cooled off, talk to the person. Let them know how it made you feel and that this is not okay. Ask them how they can fix it - they need to take some responsibility and set the record straight. If it is damaging your reputation in any way or about something that might get you in trouble, then get help if you need it to stop the rumor from spreading.
500
What does taking accountability mean to you?
.
M
e
n
u