How families deal with conflict
Causes of conflict
Avoidance
Random
100
ignoring or communicating ambiguously about the situation
What is Avoidance
100
You and your family hardly talk anymore
What is lack of communication
100
avoiding by joking about the issue or changing the topic
What is skirting
100
A transactional process between two people who perceive incompatible goals, scarce resources, or interference in achieving their objectives.
What is conflict
200
Working together with someone else to accomplish both goals
What is collaboration
200
You and you family disagree on certain topics
What is difference of opinion
200
communicating in a fashion then abandoning the encounter by physically leaving the scene or refusing to interact
What is sniping
200
people who are linked with a network of friends, family, etc.
What is social network currency
300
Pursing own goals to the exclusion of others goals
What is Competitive
300
a resource that others desire, giving one influential control over individuals who value that resource
What is Power Currency
300
Repressed annoyance grows as the mental list of grievances we have accumulates, often resulting in a sudden explosion of anger.
What is cumulative avoidance
300
There has been alot of pressure at work and when you come home you are quiet but this is interpreted as you are angry about something when you are just reflecting on the pressures at work.
What is pseudo conflict
400
one person abandons his or her own goals to help the others goals
What is Accommodation
400
Special skills or knowledge that gives one influence or control over people who value that resource
What is Expertise Currency
400
Through avoidance a conflict could develop which is a perception that there is a conflict when one really doesn’t exist.
What is pseudo conflict
400
the activity of conveying  information  through the exchange of thoughts, messages, or information, as by speech, visuals, signals, writing, or behavior.
What is communication
500
An agreeable resolution to a conflict achieved when both people sacrifice some of their goals
What is Compromise
500
Accepting your role in your family
What is responsibility
500
When you repeatedly remind your child of homework, tasks around the house, cleaning their room and do not follow through. Then one day you explode angrily about all the things that have been building up over time all at once.
What is cumulative avoidance
500
sharing with someone else a close bond that no one else shares.
What is intimacy currency
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