Confront Reality Basics
Confront Reality Negative Behaviors
Positive and Negative Behaviors
Crucial Conversations I
Crucial Conversations II
100
The world or the state of things as they actually exist, as opposed to an idealistic or notional idea of them.
What is reality?
100
Is to ignore it, to act as though it doesn’t exist. Its burying your head in the sand, thinking that maybe it will go away or not really there after all.
What is the opposite of confront reality?
100
“Everything is terrible, we’re all going to die”
What is extremism?
100
How to spot the conversations that are keeping you from what you want.
What is Get Unstuck?
100
Content, Pattern Relationship.
What is CPR?
200
An idiom for an obvious truth that is either being ignored or going unaddressed.
What is the elephant in the room?
200
To act as though you’re confronting reality when you’re actually evading it and skirting the real issues.
What is the counterfeit to confronting reality?
200
He said “Confront the brutal facts yet never lose faith”
Who is Jim Collins?
200
The first step to change starts with a change of heart, which begins when you admit that you’re the person you should be trying to improve.
What is work on me first?
200
A single instance of a problem.
What is Content?
300
An idea, custom, institution held, especially unreasonable, to be above criticism.
What is a sacred cow?
300
Not open, honest, transparent.
What is lacking in character?
300
Causing someone to be treated unfairly or made to feel as if he is in a bad position.
What is victimization?
300
How to stay in dialogue when you’re angry, scared or hurt.
What is master my stories?
300
When you focus on what you really want.
What is work on me first?
400
Confront Reality.
What is Speed of Trust Behavior #8?
400
Clueless, naïve, incompetent, not knowing the real issues.
What is lacking in competence?
400
People don’t want to be the bearer of bad news, people want to avoid discomfort.
What are reasons why we don’t confront reality?
400
Victim, Villain, Helpless
What are 3 clever stories?
400
Once you separate facts from stories, you realize that the same facts could be used to tell an infinite number of stories.
What is why separate facts from stories?
500
Is based on the principles of courage, responsibility, awareness and respect.
What is Confront Reality?
500
This doesn’t inspire trust.
What is the opposite and counterfeit of confronting reality?
500
Increasing courage (integrity), Improving intent, Working on trust abilities (Capabilities)
What are movements toward the sweet spot of Confront Reality?
500
First you see or hear, Second you tell a story, Thirst you generate a feeling, Fourth you act
What is separate the facts from the story?
500
Opposing opinions, strong emotions, high stakes.
What is a crucial conversation?
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