Connections
Making Friends
Social Detective
100

This is the first thing you can do when meeting someone new that helps you seem friendly.

Smile and say hello.

100

People usually enjoy talking with someone who does this instead of only talking about themselves.

Asks questions and listens.

100

If someone is smiling and facing you, they are probably feeling...

Interested or friendly.

200

You notice someone sitting alone during lunch at camp. What is one kind thing you could do?

Invite them to sit with you or start a conversation.

200

What does "finding common interests" mean?

Discovering things both people enjoy.

200

If someone keeps looking at the clock or door while you're talking, what might that tell you?

They may need to leave or may not be able to keep talking.

300

Name two questions you could ask someone to get to know them.

What do you like to do?
Where are you from?
What's your favorite activity?
What music do you like?

300

Name three conversation starters.

Hi!
What class do you have next?
What do you like to do?
Can I sit here?

300

Name two examples of positive body language.

Eye contact, smiling, facing the speaker, nodding.

400

You had fun talking with someone at camp. What could you do the next day to continue building that friendship?

Say hi again, invite them to join an activity, or ask them to sit with you.

400

Someone says they love soccer, and you do too. What could you say next?

Ask about their team, share your experience, or ask another follow-up question.

400

Why is it important to notice other people's body language?

It helps you understand how they might be feeling.

500

Think of one social success you had at camp. What skill helped make it successful?

listening, asking questions, including others

500

What are three qualities of a good friend?

Honest, kind, trustworthy, respectful, funny, supportive, good listener.

500

Someone answers every question with one-word responses. What could that mean?

They may be shy, distracted, tired, or not interested in talking.

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