Basics of consent
This is the word for agreeing to something freely and willingly
Consent
What should you do if someone says "no"?
Respect their decision and stop.
If you want to touch or use someone’s belongings, what should you always seek first?
Permission/consent.
What is a simple way to communicate consent?
Saying yes.
You stare at someone for a long time. They turn away and look uncomfortable. Is it okay to keep staring at them?
No. Our eyes can make people feel uncomfortable, too! If someone looks away, crosses their arms, or moves away, that is a sign to give them privacy and look somewhere else.
True or false: Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
True
True or False: Consent is only necessary for physical activities.
False
True or False: It's okay to share a peer's secret if someone else asks you.
False
You ask a housemate for a hug. They do not say any words, but they step back and give you a thumbs down. Did they tell you NO?
Yes! People can speak with their bodies, not just their mouths; if someone shakes their head, pushes away, or steps back, their body is telling you 'No.' We always respect body language!
Who does your body belong to?
You! (My body belongs to me)
Describe one way to ask for consent in a relationship.
Asking directly, such as "Are you okay with this?"
How can you make sure that you have someone's consent to share their personal information?
By asking them if it's okay to share and making sure they agree.
If your housemate said "YES" to hugging in the past, do you still need to ask before hugging them today?
Yes! Consent needs to be continuous and checked regularly to ensure comfort and agreement.
You say "YES" to a hug, but as soon as your friend comes closer, you feel uncomfortable. Is it okay to change your mind right away and say "STOP"?
Yes! You can change your mind right away, at any time.