everyday consent
When borrowing someone's belongings, what should you always seek first?
permission/consent
What is a boundary and who can you have them with?
A limit we set to feel safe, respected, & comfortable. You can set boundaries with everyone.
what is the word for agreeing to something willingly and freely?
consent
What is a respectful way to respond if someone does not give consent?
To accept their decision and thank them for communicating their boundaries.
True or False: When someone sets a new boundary with you, you should get upset with them.
False
True or False: It is okay to share another person's personal information because a friend asked you.
False
Give an example of a physical boundary.
ex. Not wanting to be hugged or touched without permission.
True or False: Consent can be withdrawn at anytime.
TRUE
Consent or Not Consent: Bob asks Dylan for a hug. Dylan doesn't respond but shifts his body away from Bob.
not consent.
A friend who always offers you a soda is gone but you see sodas in their room. What should you do?
Wait till they get back and ask for permission.
What should you do if someone tells you to stop or no?
Respect the boundary and stop.
What is an emotional boundary?
ex. Saying you’re not ready to talk about your feelings or needing space when upset.
Does consent apply to only your relationships or to everyone you talk to and why?
Everyone because consent helps establish and maintain personal boundaries. In everyday interactions, respecting personal boundaries is essential to maintain healthy and respectful relationships.
Taylor and Drew are in a relationship. Taylor says "I am not in the mood to do anything tonight." What should Drew do?
Respect Taylor's boundary and not pressure them.
your roommate sleeps with the radio on and it starts to keep you up. What should you do?
communicate and set boundaries.
How can you ensure you have someone's consent to share their personal information
By explicitly asking them if it's okay to share and making sure they willingly agree.
True or False: You can change your boundaries at any time.
TRUE
What is one essential condition that must be met for consent to be considered valid?
the person must have the capacity to understand and agree to the action
Your friend gives you money after you had to ask them repeatedly. What is this an example of?
coercion, not respecting boundaries
Give an example of how to communicate with someone that they just violated one of your boundaries?
- calmly tell them they crossed a boundary and firmly reset the boundary to them.
What are things you can work on to help others around you (friends/peers) feel comfortable and safe? Name at least 3 things
- asking for consent before physical touch
- work on impulse control
- have open communication
- set and respect boundaries
-listen and respect when someone says no
True or False: A boundary you set for one person has apply to everyone else in your life.
False.
What should you do if someone is not respecting consent?
tell someone.
Your friend told you that they would give you money for when you go to the store but later tells you that they change their mind and can't give you money. What should you do?
respect their decision.
When you come back to your room you see your roommate has taken one of your sodas without asking. What should you do?
- communicate and set a boundary with them.
- tell a staff member.