Characteristics of a Healthy Relationship
Characteristics of an Unhealthy Relationship
Scenarios
Avoiding an Unhealthy Relationship
100

The other partner should respect the wishes of the one who needs to sort out his or her feelings first and wait until the other person is ready to talk.

Communication

100

The decisions regarding what to do, what to wear, and who to spend time with are all decided by one partner in a relationship.

Control

100

Spending every moment together/ Only going out with your partner

Unhealthy because of individuality

100

Not wanting to tell your partner the full story to avoid him/her getting hurt.

Good Communication/Honesty

200

Each person understands and values the other person for who they are and knows where they stand.

Mutual Respect

200

One of the couples lies to the other or withholds information from the other.

Dishonesty

200

Communicating throughout the day

Healthy/ builds trust and communication skills

200

Feeling overly frustrated in an argument with your partner and wanting to release your frustration physically or verbally

Anger Control

300

Break down an issue into smaller pieces or talk through the situation to come up with new solutions.

Problem-solving

300

One dating partner mocks the other partner's views and interests, or they destroy something that belongs to the other partner.

Disrespect

300

Telling white lies to avoid hurting your partner

Unhealthy/ lowers trust and stability

300

Not liking certain hobbies your partner partakes in

Mutual Respect

400

Friends and family can be encouraged to behave with respect by partners.

Being a role-model

400

A partner believes they "cannot live without" the other.

Dependence

400

Ignoring a problem in order to avoid starting a fight

Unhealthy/ avoids problem solving

400

Not agreeing with a certain outcome of a situation or conversation

Compromise

500

Each should keep doing the things he or she enjoys and seeing friends.Each should encourage their partner to pursue new interests or meet new people.

Individuality

500

By making the other partner fearful or timid, one partner tries to control aspects of the other's life. One dating partner might try to keep the other person from their friends and family, or they might threaten violence or break up.

Intimidation

500

Making sure your partner is okay with sexual activities moving forward

Healthy/ Consent

500

Your partner wants to go out to a nightclub with their friends

Individuality 

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