Consent Basics
True or False: you can say "no" at any time or even change your mind.
True
True or False: A healthy relationship means you never argue.
False - Disagreements happen, but in a healthy relationship they are dealt with respect and open communication.
True or False: Communication is a two-way street.
True - Both people should have an opportunity to express themselves.
What is a situationship?
A relationship that lacks clear boundaries and labels - more than friends, less than a committed relationship.
What is a "green flag" in a relationship?
A positive action, trait, or behavior that indicates a healthy and potentially strong relationship.
What is the age of consent in Canada?
16 years old
True or False: If someone loves you, they will never say "no" to you.
False - saying "no" and setting boundaries is healthy and necessary in relationships.
True or False: Boundaries are only necessary in toxic relationships.
False - Boundaries are important in all relationships to ensure respect, privacy, and comfort.
What is soft-launching?
A subtle announcement of a romantic relationship, step by step, little by little.
What is a "red flag" in a relationship?
A warning sign of unhealthy or toxic behavior, like excessive jealousy or manipulation.
True or False: If someone agrees to an activity once, they have to agree to it again in the future.
True - everyone involved must continuously give consent.
True or False: In a healthy relationship, both partners feel safe expressing their thoughts and emotions.
True or false- A healthy relationship is built on trust, respect, and open communication, where both people feel heard and valued.
What is the importance of active listening in a relationship?
Active listening shows respect and understanding, helps resolve conflicts, and ensures that both partners feel heard and valued.
What is cuffing season?
In the fall/winter when people seek relationships.
Red flag or Green Flag - Your partner listens attentively when you share concerns and works with you to find solutions.
Green Flag – This shows empathy and a willingness to engage in healthy communication.
True or False: Can someone give consent after drinking?
True - as long as they have the mental capacity to do so.
Overwhelming someone with excessive affection or gifts to manipulate or control them.
What is the difference between a healthy boundary and control?
A healthy boundary protects personal comfort, while control tries to limit and manipulate the other person's actions.
What is breadcrumbing?
Sending flirty messages occasionally to keep someone interested but never committing.
Red flag or Green flag - Your partner frequently makes jokes at your expense.
Red Flag – This indicates disrespect and a lack of care for your feelings.
What does consent mean?
It ensures that everyone involved is comfortable, willing, and enthusiastic about participating.
What is stonewalling and why is unhealthy in a relationship?
When one partner shuts down, ignores, or refuses to communicate during conflicts. It prevents resolution and creates emotional distance.
Talk openly with your partner about how their actions affected you, and if the disrespect continues, consider reassessing the relationship.
A play from 1933 and also a current slang term.
Gaslighting
Red Flag or Green Flag - Your partner apologizes when they make a mistake and tries to improve, but you notice mood swings and emotional withdrawal without explanation.
Red flag - the mood swings and emotional withdrawal suggest unpredictable or unhealthy behavior. It could be a sign of emotional instability or manipulation, which can create a toxic dynamic in the relationship.