Behavior Expectations
Keeping personal information shared only within the group
What is Circle of Trust? Privacy? Confidentiality?
Accepting responsibility for one's actions
What is accountability?
Being affected by the thoughts and behavior of others, can be positive or negative
What is influence?
Having a good view of yourself, or taking care of your body, mind, and spirit
What is healthy self-esteem?
A person who sets a good example
What is a role model?
Place where we won't judge people for their identity or experience, nor will we blame, speculate and or use hurtful language
What is safe space?
A way of living that allows men and boys to be their authentic (real) selves
What is healthy manhood?
Someone directly asks you to do something that you don't want to do
What is Peer Pressure?
An intense emotion when something has gone wrong or someone has wronged you, MUST be managed/controlled
What is anger?
An uneducated opinion about a person or group of people based on nothing real
What is a stereotype?
No unwanted, aggressive, uncomfortable behavior towards another individual in this space?
What is no bullying?
A set of rules that guys should follow, teaches don't ask for help, dominate, be in control
What is the ManBox or Guy Code?
Using someone for your own singular purposes, without no feeling or humanity
What is objectification?
Limits and rules in our relationships
What are boundaries?
A social group with something in common that should be helped by all of it's members
What is a community?
Allowing everyone a chance to speak, without interrupting, including the facilitator?
What is active listening?
Understanding, and responding to emotions and experiences
What is empathy?
Advantages, opportunities and rewards that not everyone has
What are privileges?
A partner repeatedly punching, slapping, choking or pulling hair
What is physical abuse?
This is the percentage of men who perpetrate violence against women and girls. You guys are not in this category
What is 20%
Being willing to open up and share, and trust
What is vulnerability?
Analyzing information, forming your own opinions, making your own decisions about a subject/topic
What is critical thinking?
Social categories that create different experiences for everyone based on who they are
What is intersectionality?
Someone gives you permission for something or agrees to do something with you
A person must be 17 years old in NYS to give this
What is consent?
This is the type of masculinity that we display as good men in our community.
What is healthy?