Coping Skills
What should you do
True or False
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100

Listening to music, Drawing a picture, Playing with a pet

What are three positive coping skills

100

You answer a question incorrectly in class.

Take a deep breathe and listen to teacher for the correct answer. 

100

coping skills can be both positive or negative

True

Positive coping skills can help people feel better and negative coping skills will make others feel bad.

100

Three people I can ask for help.

100

Three deep breathes.

200

Yelling and swearing, Throwing or slamming things, hitting others

What are negative coping skills

200

A classmate is being mean and calling people names.

Ask them to stop. If they don't, walk away and ignore them. Tell a teacher or other adult.

200

It is not ok to get angry.

False

Everyone gets angry, it is how we react when angry that matters.

200

Three things that make me happy.

200

Counting to 10

300

not getting your way;  not understanding a problem in school; feel frustrated, sad, or angry.

Times when I should use coping skills

300

Your sibling wants to play/hang out with you but you want to be left alone.

Offer to play together later. 

Politely ask to be left alone. 

If that doesn't work ask an adult to help.

300

Asking for help when you are feeling overwhelmed is ok.

True

Everyone need help from time to time

300

Three things I am good at.

300

To ask for help politely

400

What is a coping skill I can use at

Home

School

Anywhere

Answers vary 

400

Its your turn to watch tv, but your sibling's show hasn't ended yet.

A. Let them finish their show and then watch yours.

B. Politely tell them its your turn and ask to change it.

C. Politely let an adult know its your turn and  have them help you.

400
Frustration and anger will go away if I ignore it.

False

Frustration and anger will build up if not released. eventually exploding.

400

My proudest accomplishment

400

Your favorite coping skill.

500

Name stressors in your life and what coping skills you can use to manage them. 

(500 points for each different one you can list)

Answers vary

500

You are feeling frustrated after being told no. 

Politely ask why. Ask adult how to change the no to yes (earn it).

Take space, use a coping skill (music, drawing, breathing, practice a hobby)

500

Telling someone you hate them is a good way to get them to leave you alone and to calm down. 

False

It may get them to leave you alone but it will hurt their feelings.

500

Something I did well in the past week

500

How to disagree politely. 

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