Healthy Coping Skills
Name 3 healthy coping skills.
- Read a Book, Writing/Drawing/Painting, Listening to Music, Spending Time with Friends/Family, Go for a Walk, Deep Breathing, Meditation
True or False
An unhealthy coping skill won't lead you to a resolution
True
Which of the following is a benefit of using healthy coping skills?
a.) they reduce stress b.) they allow us to create better relationships c.) they allow us to have a healthy mind and body d.) all of the above
d.) all of the above
True or False: Talking to others about problems in our lives is a healthy coping skill.
TRUE! Talking to others allows us to share our emotions and problems so that we do not have to go through them alone.
Name a THINKING coping skill (healthy or unhealthy)
Positive affirmation, negative self talk, pep talk
Stressor
Something that causes you stress
Healthy coping skills help us
a.) Deal with stressors in our lives b.) Work through our emotions and problems c.) Process our thoughts and emotions d.) All of the above
d.) All of the above
Using healthy coping skills allow us to take a minute and process what is happening with our emotions, stressors, thoughts, and problems.
Name one example of an unhealthy coping skill.
-Avoiding Help
- Fighting
- Yelling at others
- Harming others or yourself
Who can benefit from using coping skills? AND when should they be used?
EVERYONE ALL THE TIME
True or False: Every coping skill is healthy
FALSE! Some ways that we learn to cope are not healthy for us! (ex: fighting, eating too much, running from problems, etc.)
Name a PHYSICAL coping skill (healthy or unhealthy)
Anything you do
Coping Strategy
Anything that we say do or think that helps us calm down or relax when we are having a big feeling
What is one healthy coping skill people can use when feeling lonely and isolated?
learning a new skill
pursue a hobby
reading a good book
listening to music
connect with nature
talking to family/friends
Which of the coping skills below are unhealthy.
Getting Fresh Air, Talking to a Trusted Friend/Adult, Destroying Property, Exercising, Playing Sports, Taking Feelings Out on Others, Yelling at someone you don't like
destroying property
yelling at someone you don't like
taking feelings out on others
What is one benefit that a person can experience from using healthy coping skills
Feeling more relaxed, Having a clear mind to help solve your problems, Creating healthy relationships with others, Being able to think about your response to a situation,
True or False: Coping skills are used to avoid problems in our lives.
FALSE! Coping skills help us work through our problems and emotions. You do not want to avoid these! Avoiding is considered an unhealthy coping skill.
When can taking a break as a coping skill turn unhealthy?
When it turns into avoiding
Resolution
An answer or solution to your problem
What are clues to know when it's time to use my healthy coping skills?
When you start to feel like you are losing control of your behavior or your emotions
True or False?
All stress is out of your control.
False
When does a healthy coping skill become unhealthy?
When it is done excessively and in a unhealthy way.
When it negatively affects your life
True or False: Coping skills help you focus on the important things in your life.
TRUE! When we can cope with problems in our lives, it is easier to focus on everything else that is important to us
Tell me one positive affirmation
ANY
Implement
To use
What does a healthy coping skill lead you to that an unhealthy one does not?
A resolution
Name an emotion that often leads people to engage in unhealthy coping skills.
Anger
Sadness
Anxiety
Jealousy
Depression
Guilt
True or false: a healthy coping skill can turn into an unhealthy coping skill
True
True or False: Coping skills are not important to your well-being.
FALSE! Coping skills create a sense of calmness, confidence, and inner-peace. They are important for your overall health
When is practicing self care important?
Every single day!!!!
Coping Process
Everything from the stressor to he coping strategy to the resolution