CONSENT 101
What is the simplest definition of consent?
A clear, freely-given “yes.”
Name one green flag in a relationship
Respect, honesty, communication, boundaries, shared decisions.
True or False: Condoms protect against pregnancy and STIs.
True
Taylor says “I don’t know… maybe.” Is that consent?
No
True or False: “If they didn’t say no, it’s yes.
False
Name one thing that automatically makes consent invalid
Pressure, intoxication, fear, manipulation, unconsciousness.
Name one red flag
Control, jealousy, isolation, pressure, disrespect.
Why is communication important before any sexual activity?
Ensures consent, comfort, safety, expectations.
Your partner keeps asking even after you say no. What’s the issue?
Coercion / pressure
Consent is only needed the first time.
Myth , needed every time
True or False: Consent can be taken back at any time.
True
What’s one example of healthy digital communication between partners?
Asking before posting someone, respecting response time, no pressure.
Name one way to reduce sexual risk besides condoms.
Abstinence, mutual testing, delaying, birth control methods (pill, patch, ring).
Two teens both have been drinking illegally alcohol. Can they consent?
No — impaired = cannot consent.
Teens don’t need to talk about protection because “nothing will happen".
Myth, Communication equals safety
Give one example of non-verbal consent and one example that is not consent.
Nodding yes vs freezing or silence
What is “love bombing”?
Over-the-top affection used to manipulate or control.
What would be considered “dual protection”?
Using condoms + another birth control method.
Your friend says their partner checks their phone without asking. Which category is this?
Boundary violation / unhealthy behavior.
“Checking in ruins the moment.”
No , it builds trust
Why doesn’t a past “yes” equal a future “yes”?
Consent must be renewed every time.
How can someone set a boundary respectfully?
“I’m not ready for ___. Can we ___ instead?”
Name one reason teens might delay sexual activity
Not ready, cultural values, stress, safety, emotional readiness, focus on goals.
What should someone do if they feel unsafe with a partner?
Talk to a trusted adult, leave the situation, get support, call for help.