A.M.P.P.
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S.T.A.T.E
100

What does the "A" mean in AMPP?

What is Ask?  Invite them to share their thoughts for feelings.


100

When you see signs of silence or violence, what should you do?

What is to restore safety?

100

What does the "S" mean in 

STATE?

What is (SHARE) your facts?

200

What does the "M" mean in AMPP?

What is Mirror? Mirror is to confirm and acknowledge and confirm their feelings and see things from their perspective.

200

When it is clear you have violated respect or made a mistake and need to get the conversation back on track. What should you do?

What is an apology?

200

What does the first "T" mean in 

STATE?

What is (TELL) your story?

300

What does the first "P" mean in AMPP?

What is a Paraphrase?  Restate in your own words what you understood them to say.

300

In a crucial conversation Masking, Avoiding, Withdrawing, Controlling, Labeling, and Attacking are 6 signs of what?

What is Stress?

300

What does the "A" mean in 

STATE?

What is (ASK) for others paths?

400

What does the last "P" mean in AMPP?

What is Prime? Ask additional questions when the conversation is not going anywhere. Acknowledge their feelings by asking leading questions.

400

Finding something you and another person can agree on is creating what, in a crucial conversation.

What is a mutual purpose?

400

What does the "T" mean in 

STATE?

What is (TALK) tentatively? Not wimpy.

500

A discussion between two or more people where:

The stakes are high, Opinions differ, and 

Emotions run strong.

The outcome significantly impacts their lives, and there is a significant risk of adverse consequences.

What is a Crucial Conversation?

500

3 signs that a conversation has turned into a Crucial Conversation.

What are physical signs, emotional signs, behavioral signs?

500

What does the "E" mean in 

STATE?

What is (ENCOURAGE) testing? Invite Opposing views.

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