Crucial Conversations 101
Start with the Heart
Learn to Look
Make it Safe
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When it matters most, we do our ________ .
What is worst?
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Work on me __________ , us second.
What is first?
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THIS will cause participants to stop adding to the Pool of Shared Meaning?
What is fear or loss of safety?
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With THIS you can talk with almost anyone about anything.
What is safety?
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When faced with a Crucial Conversation, you can (a) avoid it, (b) face it & do it poorly, or (c) __________________.
What is face it and do it well?
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What is 1 of the 2 skills that are used to assure your motive is right.
What is "Focus on what you really want" or "Avoid the Fool's Choice"?
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In order to self-monitor my behavior during a heated conversation, I need to know and understand my _______ under stress.
What is style?
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The entrance condition for dialog is ________ _________ . The continuation condition is Mutual Respect.
What is Mutual Purpose?
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These are the 3 components that make a conversation "crucial".
What are high-stakes, strong emotions, and opposing opinions?
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In this conversation, my focus is on winning, which means my ____________ has changed, and what I really want is no longer the goal.
What is motive?
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These are the terms Crucial Conversations uses to refer to the basic human tendency to "fight or flight".
What are silence and violence?
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Once Mutual Purpose or Mutual Respect is at risk, there are 3 techniques that can be used to rebuild them. 1 of them is _______________ .
What are (a) apologize, (b) contrast, or (c) create a mutual purpose?
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The free flow of meaning between two or more people.
What is dialogue?
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Crucial Conversations uses THIS label to describe the following kind of statement: "I can remain friends with my co-worker OR I can tell her that she's rude in dealing with customers".
What is a Fool's Choice?
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This form of violence stereotypes or categorizes people.
What is labeling? Other forms of violence are controlling and attacking.
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THIS is the contrasting statement you would use in this situation: Your son is struggling in Algebra. You try to help him by telling him he needs to study more, but he gets upset and says "So, you think I am stupid".
What is "I don't think you're stupid, but I do want you to do well in Algebra"?
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Crucial Conversations uses THIS term to describe the combined opinions, feelings, theories, experiences and thoughts of the topic at hand shared by all participants in the conversation.
What is Pool of Shared Meaning?
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He is 1 of the 4 authors of Crucial Conversations.
Who is Kerry Patterson or Joseph Grenny or Ron McMillan or Al Switzler?
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This form of silence is categorized by someone pulling out of the communication altogether.
What is withdrawing? Other forms of silence are masking and avoiding.
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The 4 skills used to create a Mutual Purpose are described by CRIB. THIS is what 1 of the letters stands for.
What are Commit to seek Mutual Purpose; Recognize the purpose behind the strategy; Invent a Mutual Purpose, and Brainstorm new strategies?
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