Compassion
Self compassion
cognitive distorition
harshness vs compassion
100

True or false- compassion means listening and being patient

true

100

give me an example of self compassion

i can do this

100

what belief is this: I am the reason the project at work failed"

personalization

100

harshness blank and compassion blank

prevents growth, promotes growth

200

What is compassion

promotes growth, respect for self and others, caring about others and self, treating with kindness

200

benefits of learning self compassion

reduce anxiety, depression, and stress

builds better communication

listens to self 

loving and understanding

200

they will not like me. they probably think im not cool

jumping to conclusions, mind reading, or fortune telling

200

how is harshness associated with PTSD

emotional pain, you may take it out on self. self harm, negative statements, you may crictize others because you were put down

300

what the difference between sympathy and empathy and give an example of each

feeling for vs feeling with

300

how does self compassion reduce fear of failure

increases motivation to ask for help, reach goals, problem solve

300

If my partner leaves me, I'll never find someone else and I'll never be happy again

catastrophizing

300

how is harshness associated with substacne use

self hatred, ashamed, try to prevent it from happening again without thinking things through, 
400

what are three components of compassion

self kindness, common humanity and mindfulness
400

What is a common misconception about the effectiveness of self-compassion compared to self-criticism?

That self-criticism is more motivating and effective than self-compassion in achieving goals.

400

I never do good enough, i will always be a loster

all or nothing thinking, 

400

change this sentence: 

I'll always fail, whats the point in trying

500

what was the quote today

you yourself as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection

500

what is the difference between self esteem and self compassion 

Self-compassion involves treating oneself kindly regardless of success or failure, while self-esteem is based on self-evaluations and often depends on external achievements

500

oh that was just easy, im just lucky like that, they probably just feel sorry for me

disqualifying the postive

500

what are three ways from seeking safety without looking at the book that increase compassion

if i loved myself would i say this, if i were listenitng to my deepest needs would i say this, explore reasons for underlying actions, use kinder language, imagine you are talking to a small child who has made a mistake, experiment with compassion, practice

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