Types of abuse
The cycle of violence
Why do people stay
Why do people abuse
100
What is sexual abuse
The act of making someone take part in sexual activities against their will
100
what is the cycle of violence
it is the cycle that most abusive relationships follow
100
What is the disney princess that is well known for being an abusive relationship
Belle from Beaty and The Beastttttt
100
Name 2 reason the abuser might abuse
personality disorder
media influence
been abused before
anger issues
200
Name 3 types of physical abuse shown
Slapping, pinching, choking, kicking, shoving or inappropriately using drugs or physical restraint
200
name all 3 phases that are part of "the cycle of violence"
- tension build up
- violent episode
- honeymoon phase
200
Name 3 reason the abused will stay in the relationship
They don't know the laws surrounding being abused
They are threatened by the abuser
They have a low-self esteem
They recieve judgment from others
200
Who gets most influenced by the media to abuse
Children/kids
300
Why do people usually verbal abuse others
Verbal abuse behaviors are attempts to gain power
300
Name what happens during 1 out of the 3 phases
Tension build-up
- problems start rising but are ignored
- your partner starts becoming verbally aggressive
- you start to feel like it's deserved
- you start being in denial and believe that it's not a big deal
Violent episode
- your partner starts to abuse physically
- its can escalates from a simple push/shove to use of weapons
- your partner claims there are right and it's your fault
- You start believing them
Honeymoon phase
- Partner
- What they do
- scared you would leave the relationship
- is worried and tries to make up
- starts becoming charming and manipulative
- believes anger can be controlled and says it will never happen again
- and/or may shower you with gifts (flowers, etc.
- You
- you want to believe that what they’re saying is true
- start to feel responsible for the abuse
- the honeymoon period might be reduced to a day without violence or totally absent
300
What type of threats does the abuser use to keep the abused
Hurting or killing the victim, family or any kids that they might have
They could follow with their threats if the victim leaves
300
What personality disorders might cause a person to abuse
Sociopath or psychopath or sadistic
400
Name 5 types of emotional/physiological abuse
Threats, insults, manipulation, humiliation, intimidation, excessive jealousy, constant monitoring or dismissiveness
400
Name what happens during 2 out of the 3 phases
Tension build-up
- problems start rising but are ignored
- your partner starts becoming verbally aggressive
- you start to feel like it's deserved
- you start being in denial and believe that it's not a big deal
Violent episode
- your partner starts to abuse physically
- its can escalates from a simple push/shove to use of weapons
- your partner claims there are right and it's your fault
- You start believing them
Honeymoon phase
- Partner
- What they do
- scared you would leave the relationship
- is worried and tries to make up
- starts becoming charming and manipulative
- believes anger can be controlled and says it will never happen again
- and/or may shower you with gifts (flowers, etc.
- You
- you want to believe that what they’re saying is true
- start to feel responsible for the abuse
- the honeymoon period might be reduced to a day without violence or totally absent
400
Threats from an abuser is a reason the abused don't leave, what type of abuse is that?
Emotional/Physiological abuse
400
Why would the abused want to abuse when they grow up?
Subconscious effort to make up for their own abuse
If a man was abused by a man as a child, he might grow up and abuse women to prove that he is not a homosexual
The reverse can also be true
500
What is Socio-economic violence and some examples
Include taking away the earnings of the victim, not allowing them to have a separate income (giving them housewife status, or making them work in a family business without a salary), or making them the victim unfit for work through targeted physical abuse.
500
Name what happens during all 3 phases of the cycle of violence
Tension build-up
- problems start rising but are ignored
- your partner starts becoming verbally aggressive
- you start to feel like it's deserved
- you start being in denial and believe that it's not a big deal
Violent episode
- your partner starts to abuse physically
- its can escalates from a simple push/shove to use of weapons
- your partner claims there are right and it's your fault
- You start believing them
Honeymoon phase
- Partner
- What they do
- scared you would leave the relationship
- is worried and tries to make up
- starts becoming charming and manipulative
- believes anger can be controlled and says it will never happen again
- and/or may shower you with gifts (flowers, etc.
- You
- you want to believe that what they’re saying is true
- start to feel responsible for the abuse
- the honeymoon period might be reduced to a day without violence or totally absent
500
what % of hostage victims gain stockholm syndrome
8%
500
Does any of these reasons excuse their behavior?
Nope, its just good for victims and for us to know.