Scenarios
Ask them out/ to hangout
If you're trying to ask someone out who is your own age, you're doing it right. If it's your dentist.... maybe not so much.
asking peers around own age
You've been texting with someone new, and they suddenly stop replying for days at a time. Instead of panicking, you should...
Move on.. don't read into this one too much
they are likely not interested
You've been on zero dates, and she just called you "buddy." You probably don't have this yet.
a girlfriend/boyfriend/partner
True/ false? A good way to attract someone is to only talk about yourself and your hobbies?
False
If you ask someone out the moment you meet them, they might think you're writing a book called "How to Scare People Away." Wait a bit for this reason.
asking someone out too sson/right away
You and your cousin have several common interests, is this a good person to ask on a date?
NOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
If they ask you questions about yourself, you might feel like you're in an FBI interview, but don't worry- its a good sign.
romantic interest
She/he responded "I guess" when you asked her to be your girlfriend. Proceed with caution- this might not be as clear as you think.
they are uncertain/unsure/unconfident in answer
This kind of contact shows confidence, but staring for too long might make them think you're plotting something.
eye contact
You are chatting with someone for a few weeks. They're smiling at you, asking about your favorite hobbies, and have mentioned they love your style. You could probably do this next.
Ask them on a date!
These professionals will help you with math or emotional support, but they will definitely say to to a dinner date.
Teachers, therapists, tutors, PEARL!
If someone says they'd like to do something with you, it's probably this, unless it's moving furniture.
interested in spending time romantically
interested in a date
Instead of guessing, have this conversation to see if you're actually dating or if you're just.... "hanging out"
Asking them to be your boyfriend/girlfriend
If you smell like a fresh spring breeze and not the inside of a locker, you're probably doing this right.
attracting someone with good hygiene
Your friend keeps introducing you to their other friends, laughing at your jokes, and asking if you want to hang out alone. Before jumping to conclusions, you should probably...
ask your friend directly if they are interested in a relationship/ something more than a friendship
ask intentions
You have just met someone and started chatting. Name at least one indicator that they might be interested in dating?
positive facial expressions
direct, prolonged eye contact
they ask you questions about yourself
they say they would like to do something with you.
Before you make any romantic moves, make sure they're not already stuck in one of these. Otherwise, you might be the star of a daytime soap opera.
Relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend)
You have gone on a date several times with a person; is this a good time to ask them to be your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Yes!
If they're smiling, making eye contact, and not "conveniently" checking their watch, it's safe to say you're achieving this.
attracting their interest
You are chatting with someone you may be interested in when you notice something that resembles a wedding ring on their hand. How would you proceed?
You could ask them if they are married/seeing someone.
If they are single, you could get to know them some more.
If they are married, keep the conversation casual, and pursue other interests.
They share your political views, religious beliefs, and- most importantly- they also think pineapple on pizza is a crime.
they share common beliefs
This is a good match
Asking them this question right away might lead to an awkward silence or a sudden fascination with their phone.
Will you be my girlfriend/boyfriend (right away)
You have went on several dates, she laughed at your jokes, and you actually had a conversation where you asked her to be your girlfriend. She said "yes", so now you have this.
a girlfriend
This kind of question will help you figure out what you both enjoy- unless they say "I don't like anything," in which case, run.
Asking about their interests / what they like to do for fun / hobbies