What is Self-Soothe?
Using the 5 senses to ground and comfort yourself
Thinking about the good and bad outcomes of tolerating and not tolerating distress.
What are the Three States of Mind?
Addict mind, Clean Mind, and Clear Mind
False: Mindfulness is like exercise for your brain, it requires focus and attention. It is not always pleasant or relaxing, especially if you are attending to aversive, uncomfortable, or painful experiences
Refocusing attention from yourself to what you can do for others
Replacing immediate negative events or emotions with more positive ones.
Identifying what you have control over, what you don't have control over, and skillfully letting go of things you cannot control.
What is dialectical abstinence?
The synthesis between abstinence and harm reduction.
Examples: VISION: Walk in a pretty part of town. Look at the nature around you. HEARING:Listen to beautiful or soothing music, or sounds of the ocean. SMELL: Smell breakfast being cooked. Light a candle. TASTE: Have a special treat, and eat it slowly, savoring each bite. TOUCH: Take a bubble bath. Pet your dog
Provide three examples of alternate rebellion?
See list on distress tolerance handout 21
Acting opposite to our current emotional state/urge.
Example: Take a walk around the block when feeling tired
Imagery, Meaning, Prayer, Relaxation, One Thing at a Time, Vacation, Encouragement
1. Change the situation/Solve the problem
2. Change how you feel/think about the situation
3. Accept it
4. Stay miserable
TRUE/FALSE: Willpower is all you need to remain abstinent.
FALSE - That is clean mind thinking. You need clear mind to enjoy your success, while still expecting urges and cues and planning for when you're tempted.
Describe the proper way to use Comparison
Trying to compare your current situation or the current crisis to a situation that's worse than the one you're in now.
Ex: You could compare yourself to people who have less than you have or you could think about times in your life when things have been a lot harder or you didn't have the same resources you have now. You're trying to get yourself to sort of say in your mind, 'Could be worse'.
1. Don't take vacations that will harm you.
2. Don't make your vacation too long.
Making a conscious decision to accept over and over
What skill is creating visual images and smells that will compete with the information loaded into your visual and olfactory brain systems when cravings occur?
Building bridges