Emo Regulation
Mindfulness
Distress Tol
Interpersonal
Random
100

This is the emotional response to an actual event or trigger. 

What is a Primary Emotion? 

100

Your emotions are in control of you. 

What is emotional mind?

100

This skill involves using creative activities to decrease your frustration or uncomfortable emotions, like drawing, writing, dancing, singing, etc. 

What is Creative Outlet? 

100

This means to really understand someone else's experience...but you still don't have to agree, just be open to understanding it. 

What is validation? 

100

This is the skill that allows us to distract ourselves during a crisis with activities, contributing to others, making comparisons, using positive emotions, pushing away negative thoughts and self-soothing.

What is Wise Mind ACCEPTS?

200

This is the skill that deals with taking care of physical illness, balanced eating, balanced sleep, avoiding mood altering drugs and exercise! 

What is the PLEASE skill? 

200

You are only using facts and ignore feelings.

What is Reasonable Mind? 

200

When you do this, the corners of your lips turn up just slightly to send a positive signal to your brain during times of frustration, anger, distress. 

What is a Half-Smile? 

200

Making sure you spend time on others as well as yourself.  Way to make sure your relationships stay healthy. 

What is Attend to Relationships? 

200
Having positive experiences that you can keep looking back on.  This is a great way to stay positive, even in times of distress. 

What is Build Positive Experiences? 

300

This is when you don't give yourself time to "talk yourself out of it" and you "just do it"! 

What is the Just Act skill? 

300

When the facts and emotions are working together. You make the best choices and feel in control. 

What is Wise Mind? 

300

Sometimes you need to do this to avoid a crisis, don't worry...it will still be there and this gives you time to calm, and get into WISE MIND. 

What is Take a Break? 
300

This is the skill used to keep relationships healthy.  It involves using a gentle tone, acting interested, validating others and having an easy manner to work with others. 

What is the GIVE skill? 

300

These are the limits you set for yourself and others.  They help you keep in WISE MIND and help keep relationships healthy by assuring needs are met for everyone. 

What are boundaries? 

400

This is when you do the exact different action from what you feel like doing in order to change your emotions! 

What is the Opposite to Emotion Action? 

400

Observe, describe and participate. 

What are the three ways to be mindful? 

400

There are things we cannot change and we make our crisis or frustration worse by trying to change these things.  Doing this allows us to focus on change and more important things, as well as decreases our uncomfortable emotions. 

What is Radical Acceptance? 
400

This skill is used to express yourself and get your needs met.  It involves discussing the facts, expressing your feelings and negotiating with others. 

What is DEAR MAN?

400

This is when you keep all uncomfortable emotions inside and act as if they are really occurring.  

What is stuffing of emotions? 

500

This is when you focus on one activity in order to get better, become a master or attempt a new goal. 

What is the Build Mastery skill? 

500
To be in the moment without judgement.

What is non-judgmental stance? 

500

Sometimes it is helpful to look at the positive and negative outcomes during a crisis in order to make a good choice for ourselves and remain in WISE MIND. 

What is Pros and Cons? 

500

This is the skill that keeps your self-respect, even when you mess up.  It involves sticking to the facts, no apologizing for your needs, sticking to your values and being truthful. 

What is the FAST skill? 

500

This is when you don't let your emotions come and go naturally.  You keep on one uncomfortable emotion WAY longer than you should. 

What is sticking of emotions? 

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