Mind full or Mindful?
DBT Dictionary
Feel it to Reveal it
Skill or Be Skilled
The Why Behind the Cry
100

What is mindfulness?

This practice involves focusing your attention on the present moment without judgment.

100

What does D in DBT stand for?

Bonus: Additional 10 points, what does that word mean?

Dialectics - two opposite things can both be true. 

100

When this emotion shows up, the most common urges are to attack, yell, or remove the obstacle.

Anger

100

What does PL.E.A.S.E stand for? 

Physical Illness, eating, avoid mood altering substances, sleeping, and exercise 

100

This emotion’s function is to reinforce behaviors that are enjoyable and help you seek out similar positive experiences again.

Happiness

200

This “how" means letting go of judgments like “good” or “bad” about what you notice.

Non judgmentally

200

Name the three circles in the circle of control? 

Control, influence, out of control

200

This emotion often leads to urges to withdraw, slow down, or stop engaging with others or activities.

Sadness

200

This skill involves intentionally changing emotional responses by acting opposite to what your emotion urges you to do when the emotion is not effective.

Opposite Action

200

This emotion’s function is to slow you down and signal that you may need comfort, support, or a change in situation.

Sadness

300

This “what” skill involves putting words on what you notice, such as labeling emotions or thoughts.

Describing 

300

This state of mind integrates emotional experience and logical thinking to guide decisions that are both balanced and effective. 

 

Wise Mind

300

This emotion involves the urge to hide or disappear because you believe you are bad.

Shame

300

This skill helps you understand whether your emotional reaction fits the facts of a situation.

Check the Facts 

300

This emotion’s function is to motivate you to repair harm and change your behavior when you’ve done something wrong.

Guilt

400

This “how” skill means focusing on one thing at a time and bringing your attention back when it wanders.

What is One-Mindfully

400

This DBT concept focuses on balancing acceptance and change by avoiding extreme thinking and finding a flexible, effective response between two opposites.

Middle Path

400

This emotion can create strong urges to approach, protect, connect, and maintain closeness with someone valued, even when other emotions like fear or anger are also present.

Love

400

What are the four ways to solve the problem?

Bonus: Additional 20 Points - If you are stuck between two solutions what additional skill can you use?

Solve the problem, change how you feel about the problem, accept the problem, or stay miserable

Pros and cons

400

This emotion’s function is to alert you to a potential threat to a valued relationship and motivate protective or corrective action.

Jealousy

500

In relational mindfulness, when you let go of being "right" or seeking revenge, you are using what "how" skill? 

Bonus: For an addition 20 points - Instead you should work towards ___________________. 

It is EFFECTIVE to let go of being right or seeking revenge and instead work towards MEETING YOUR RELATIONSHIP GOALS.

500

What four words do we try to avoid in DBT?

But, should, always, and never. 

500

This emotion involves the urge to want what someone else has.

Bonus: Additional10 points - What emotion is this often confused with

Envy & Jealousy

500

This DBT concept explains that emotions are not random, they are influenced by a chain that includes a prompting event, interpretations/thoughts, body changes, and action urges.

Model of Emotions

500

This emotion’s function is to promote bonding, attachment, and long-term connection by motivating care, protection, and closeness with others. 

Bonus: Additional 50 points - Look your family in the eye and say I __________

Love

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