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About Your Therapists
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The D in DEARMAN stands for ___.

What is Describe?

100
The A in DEARMAN stands for ___.
What is Assert?
100
The M in DEARMAN stands for ___.

What is Mindfulness?

100

The N in DEARMAN stands for ___.

What is Negotiate?

100

What color are Lori's and Janis' eyes?

L:  Blue

J:

200

The E in DEARMAN stands for ___.

What is Express?

200

The R in DEARMAN stands for ___. 

What is reinforce?

200

The A in DEARMAN stands for ___.

What is appear confident?
200
Describe the difference between limits and boundaries. 

Thank you!

200

What cities are Lori and Janis from?

Lori:  born in Detroit

Janis:  born in  

300

Provide an example of how you would express your emotions using I statements.

What is "I feel ___, when ___."?

300

Provide an example of how you would use R (reinforce) when communicating.

Example: smiling and saying thank you
300

If someone attacks you when using DEARMAN, how can you practice staying mindful?

Do not respond to attacks. 

Ignore distractions.

Keep saying no. 

Express your opinion over and over without judgement. 

300

Describe how you would use DEARMAN skills.

What is for communicating effectively. To help express one's wants and needs in a way that is respectful to yourself and others?

300

What are Lori's and Janis' favorite foods?  

Lori:  chocolate

Janis:  

400

T/F

Emotions are good or bad. There is no grey area. 

What is False?

400

T/F

With DEARMAN in mind, it is not possible to get what you need without being aggressive or neglecting the needs of others.

What is false? It is possible with DEARMAN
400
How can you appear confident using body language or tone of voice?

Using confident voice tone, physical manner, and make good eye contact. 

400

Describe how to use N (Negotiate) skill, when asking parents for your cell phone back.

Example: If you give me my phone back, I will complete my siblings chorus for 1 week. 

400

What is still on your bucket list?  

Lori:   seeing Machu Picchu

Janis:   

500

If you have a friend who is repeatedly standing you up or ghosting you at the last minute, how could you use DEARMAN to describe the situation. (Use only facts not judgement.)

What is "Hey Ashley, I have noticed in the last few weeks you have been ghosting me at the last minute"?

500

Describe a time when you should have used DEARMAN.

Thank you!
500

Provide an example of how you could remain mindful of your goal while not getting sidetracked or distracted by other issues. 

Example: "I would like to go over my mistakes on the math test before moving on to the next concept."

500

Tell me who created DEARMAN DBT.

What is Dr. Marsha Linehan?

500

What was your first pet?  

Lori:  dog

Janis:  

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