Good and Bad Competitiveness
How to NOT
Lose
Anger and Sadness
How to Win
How to Prepare for a Game
100

What does competitiveness mean?

Wanting to win - so badly!!

100

Is feeling angry and sad OK after you lose?

YES! But it's what we do with those feelings that is important!

100

Say "_______" after a game

Good game!

100


Say to myself: "it's not about winning, it's about having fun"
200

How are jealousy and competitiveness similar?

They both make you want to win, and get upset if someone else wins or has something you want

200

Something NOT to say to our opponents

You cheated, you didn't deserve to win!

200


Get something tasty to eat!

300

How does competitiveness affect our ability to have fun?

Only focusing on winning makes games less fun


300

Something NOT to say to our teammates

You aren't good at playing, us losing was YOUR fault!

300


Getting a hug from parents, teachers, or friends!

300

Something to give your teammates and opponents

Handshakes or high fives

400
What NOT to do after losing a game

Cry and scream 

400


Say "it is ok to lose, it doesn't make you bad at playing. Everyone loses sometimes."

400

Something to do before and after the game

Pour water on your head!

400

Something NOT to say to opponents before the game?

You're DEFINITELY NOT going to win! You don't have a chance to win!

500

Something NOT to do before and after the game

Pour water on someone else's head


500


Don't react! Instead...take a deep breath!

500
What to say to your opponents after they win the game?

Good game!/Congratulations!/Good job, you played well!

500


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