Whatcha Mean?
Reframe it
Predict the Reaction
100

"Sure, try it that way."

Friendly/Kind/Nice/Suggestion/Advice

100

This is impossible

This is hard, but I can do this.
100

If I say "This is impossible" how might I feel?

Frustrated/Irritated

200

"Oh, sure, that's fine... I guess."

Sarcasm/Frustrated/Hiding Disapproval

200

It has to be perfect.

It doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to be done.
200

If I feel overwhelmed by a hard task, what is a healthy response?

Ask for help or take a break and come back to it

300

"What did you do that for?"

Annoyed/Bothered/Upset

300

Eveything is ruined.

A part of this didn't go well, but not everything is ruined.

300

If I say "Why do I even try.." what's my first emotion?

Sadness/Encouragement

400

"I don't know if that's going to work but go for it"

Doubt/Warning/Caution

400

This is taking too long.

Some things just take time, I can do something else while I wait.

400

If I say "They're being unfair. I'm going to tell them they're wrong." What am I doing?

Arguing/Combating/Fighting

500

"You might want to rethink that plan"

Polite warning/suggestion/advice

500

I want to do it my way.

I prefer it my way, but I can work with that.

500

Freebee!

Woohoo!

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