In our group expectations what does the F stand for?
Feedback
In our discussion on conflict resolution, what are the two styles of someone not thinking enough or positively about themselves or their capabilities
**300**
What are all 5 of the conflict styles
Accommodation
Avoidance
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Domination, Compromise and Collaboration
True or False: There are no suggestions for dating in the first year?
**400**
What is my recommendation for when dating is a good idea
False
After or half way through step nine.
Neurons.
Who is the guy who created the, "self-forgetting" prayer that I read to you.
St. Francis
Finish the following phrase:
Can you fix something if you don't ______?
What's wrong with it.
Give me the main difference between a therapist and a sponsor.
One is collaborative and the other is more directive.
What's the biggest role difference between a Therapist and a Sponsor/Mentor
The therapist plays a collaborative role in the journey whereas a sponsor or mentor are directive in their roles.
Where does one's attachment styles begin and how do they get formed?
Childhood.
Interactions (over time) with Caregivers.
What was the program the second twelve step program created after AA?
NA
Complete the Phrase:
Water seeks _______
**150**
Can you tell me the main point of this or the three things that I said water ALWAYS does?
It's own level
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Goes down hill, Gets stagnate if still, always takes the easiest route
Some variation of saying that I cannot attract something above who I think I am on the inside.
What is the main issue with the Narrative someone has?
**250**
What are the steps that this really has most do with. Ill give you hint its at least 3 of them.
Some variation of:
My opinion or Side of the story is not objective and so remembering that, will save me frame lying to myself, creating a resentment, and more. This will teach me to get myself out believing negative deep feelings. I am looking for my part in situations.
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4-7
A form of healthy communication is enacting boundaries. What are boundaries never to be used as?
A weapon.
In memory formation or learning, A stands for Antecedent, B stands for Behavior, what does C stand for?
**250**
What does Consequence in the ABC model really tell us about the likeliness of behavior?
Consequence
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They tell us whether someone is to be likely do that again (reinforcement) or not (punishment).
In the Promises, when they say, "at this phase of our development".. what is that the phase they are referring to?
The ninth step or half way through the ninth step.
Don't confuse ______ with Ease..
Simplicity
In the Maintenance portion of our curriculum, what was the metaphor I used to describe regular introspective work?
Taking medicine
When creating contrary action, I should try to match/create ______ behavior to the automatic behaviors.
Hint: My contrary action should be _____ to my ______
Responsive
What was the DSM Survey that I handed out in one of our first groups assessing you for?
SUD
What are the four pillars of the connection that this curriculum mainly focuses on?
The opposite of sobriety is ________
**Bonus 150**
What is the name of the guy who said that?
Connection
Johan Hari
If Jay is amending his behavior to Anne, and he finishing rolling out the POA and asks Anne what he could do differently what question did he miss?
Am I missing anything?
How would you best benefit from twelve step work and therapy together.
What would be the main point or what is the main point of twelve steps and what is one of the main points of therapy when 12-step and therapy are being used together?
Twelve step are used to gain one day of sobriety. Whereas therapy is more designed for the discover of the inner workings or to explore deeper than the steps are made to
What are the 3 foundational attachment styles?
Avoidance, Anxious, Ambivalence
What is the definition of a relapse?
A return to a former state of being.
(return of a disease, its symptoms, or an unwanted behavior)