School Counselor
What's my line?
What's the problem?
Simon Says
What do you say?
100
Mrs. Heppner
What is our school counselor's name?
100
What Mrs. Sand Dollar says.
What is "Feel before you deal?"
100
Your pencil breaks.
What is a small problem?
or
What is a kid-sized problem you can handle on your own?
100
You can: ~Do very little. Don't show a reaction. ~Agree with the hook ~Distract the fisherman or change the subject ~Make a joke out of it. ~Swim [or walk!] away.
What are some ways Simon learned to "not bite the hook?'
100
A way to say what you don't like and be respectful at the same time. It goes like this:
When you __________________ . I feel _______________________. I wish_______________________.
What is an "I message?"
200
Individually
In a small group
During a classroom lesson
For a lunch
What are the ways a student might see Mrs. Heppner?
200
Emotions are a signal to the brain!
200
There's a tornado warning!
What is a really big problem!
200
Notice how left side is different from right side.
Ways to respond to," You are such a shrimp!"
Which ways to respond are most helpful?
or
Which side make the problem smaller and which side makes the problem bigger?
200
Some examples are:
Why do you smell so bad?
Wow, you read so slow!
This tastes terrible!
What are some examples of things you should use your social filter in your head before they come out of your mouth.
300
Write a note and leave in Mrs. Heppner's mailbox.
Ask my teacher if I can go see Mrs. Heppner.
Ask my teacher to email Mrs. Heppner.
What are some ways I can see the school counselor if I want to talk about something?
300
This is what Grandma Rose told Simon.
What is, "A tease is like a hook," and/or ," Don't bite the hook!"
300
You scraped your knee.
What is a small to medium sized problem?
300
When the "fisher" says, "You're such a little shrimp," and the "fish" says," "You are right!"
What is an example of agreeing with the hook?
300
You want to make chocolate milk but your friend won’t give you the chocolate syrup.
What I message could you say?
400
~feeling sad ~feeling worried ~having problems with a friend ~feeling like you don't have any friends ~when there's something that is getting in the way of being the best learner you can be
What are some reasons a student might go talk with the school counselor?
400
This is what Danny learned about how to change how his day goes.
What is,"Change your choices. Change your day!"
400
When your friend calls you a mean name.
What is a small to medium sized problem?
Even if a problem is small, having the right tools to handle it helps. Knowing what to do can make a medium problem a small problem.
400
Fisher: You are just a little shrimp.
Fish: Have you seen any good movies?
What is an example of distracting the fisherman?
400
Filter this thought!
Your grandmother came over and you notice that she dyed her hair. You think it looks funny,
Hi Grandma! It's so great to see you! It looks like you got a new hair do!
500
When you talk to the counselor and she says that what you talk about is private unless
~you give permission ~you or someone else is not safe and needs help right away
Hint: The word starts with the letter "C" and has 4 syllables.
What does confidential mean?
500
This is what RJ needed when he kept saying things that made people feel uncomfortable.
What is a social filter?
500
You feel really really scared [or another really strong emotion.]
How do your feelings tell you if a problem is big or small?
500
Fisher: You are just a little shrimp.
Fish: Well, so are you.
or
Fish: You're a meany.
or
Fish: I'm telling
What are some examples of responses that
~ show a fish biting the hook ? ~will make the problem bigger? ~won't help the fish?
GOTCHA!
500
Filter this!
Your teacher gave out a worksheet but you notice that it's the same one she gave for home work.
Excuse me, this worksheet looks familiar. Have we done this one before?