Statistics
Stages of Violence
Communication
Misc.
DV Law
100
The amount of women that report being the victim of domestic violence.
What is 1 in 4
100

This stage includes passive-aggressive behavior on the part of the abuser, poor communication and palpably escalating strain between two people. The victim often strongly fears angering her partner. 

What is the tension-building stage?
100

 a style in which individuals have developed a pattern of avoiding expressing their opinions or feelings,

What is passive communication?
100
Something that you know will set you off or cause a negative reaction.
What is a trigger?
100
Partial, Residential Stay-Away and Full
What are the three types of criminal protective orders?
200
20
What is the number of people abused by an intimate partner per minute?
200

involves an abuser trying to dominate his partner (the victim) through acts of domestic violence, such as kicking, hitting, shoving, biting and throwing objects.

What is the incident of abuse stage?
200
a style in which people voice their needs and opinions in a way that violates the rights of others
What is aggressive communication?
200
The ABC model is the back bone of what therapy model?
What is cognitive behavioral therapy?
200
Class D Felony, up to 5 years in prison and a 5,000 fine.
What is the consequence of violating any protective order?
300
They historically tend to underreport.  
What is the reason why statistics on men are lower?
300

the abuser apologizes for harming his victim, is overly affectionate and caring, or chooses to ignore the incidents of abuse or blame them on the victim in some way. These events are often classified as the honeymoon phase. In this stage, the abuser will make it seem as though the violence is finished, assuring the victim that such incidents will never occur again or that the abuser will change. 

What is the reconciliation stage?
300

style in which individuals appear passive on the surface but are really acting out anger in a subtle, indirect, or behind-the-scenes way. 

What is passive aggressive?
300
Sweating, heart racing, leg shaking, wringing of hands
What are signs you're getting angry?
300
You have a full protective order.  Your ex-girlfriend keeps calling and texting you anyway.  You respond, are you in violation?
What is yes
400
Provide three reasons men tend to underreport domestic violence
Pride

"Man Code"

CT is a "women's state"

Fear of arrest

400

the abuser tries really hard to be kind to the victim and does his best to restrain himself from harming this person. The abusive relationship becomes relatively peaceful and calm during this phase,

What is the calm stage?
400

a style in which individuals clearly state their opinions and feelings, and firmly advocate for their rights and needs without violating the rights of others

What is assertive communication?
400
Physical, Emotional, Financial, Sexual, Psychological
What are the types of domestic abuse?
400
The year that domestic violence dockets started in CT courts.
What is 1996
500
The number of men who report severe violence at the hands of an intimate partner.
What is 1 in 7.
500
the diagram that explains different ways an abuser has leverage over their victim
What is the power and control wheel?
500
Please rephrase this using I statements...


You're always so loud, you make me feel anxious.

I feel anxious when you speak that loudly.
500
Pre-contemplation, contemplation, preparation, action and maintenance
What are the stages of change.
500
Historical rule allowing men to beat their wives with any implement that was not wider than the width of their thumb.
What is the Rule of Thumb?
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