Communication
Conflict
Safety
Valentines Facts
100

One way to ensure that you and your partner/friend are communicating effectively?

What is be honest, listen, ask questions?

100

Is conflict the same thing as fighting?

No

100

Who can you contact in an emergency if you are worried about your safety or the safety of someone else?

UCPD or 911

100

The number of days St. Valentine served as a pope

What is forty?

200

Places you can go, on campus, to work on communication skills, either individually or with your partner/friend

What are CAPS and Ombuds?

200
What is one unhealthy way to engage in conflict?
Yelling, shouting, blaming, or hitting
200

People you can contact on campus if you want to talk to someone about your relationship?

What is Ombuds, SARC, and/or CAPS.

200

The year the first valentine was sent

What is 1415?

300

Something you should notice or pay attention to when having a conversation with your partner/friend

What is nonverbal communication?

300
What is one way you can avoid making your partner/friend defensive when talking about a difficult issue?
Use "I" statements, talk about your own feelings, try to understand where the other person is coming from, avoid accusing the other person
300
Can sexual assault occur between two people who know each other?
Yes
300

The average revenue of Valentine's Day in America

What is 19.6 billion dollars?

400

Some signs that you are not communicating effectively with your partner/friend?

What is not feeling comfortable or being afraid to express wants, needs, fears, etc.., or dreading/avoiding conversations about difficult topics?

400
What is something you can do to cool down during a disagreement?
Take a time-out from the disagreement or limit your discussion time
400

A resource can you use if you feel uncomfortable walking alone

What is CSO Escort?

400

The individual that Americans spend 650 million dollars on gifts for

What is pets?

500

The key to many successful relationships that helps to navigate conflict and happy times

What is communication?

500
What are some things that can turn a conflict into a fight?
Making threats, giving ultimatums (ex: Do this, or else!), accusing without listening, not being willing to apologize or take the blame, getting physical with your partner/friend
500
Can sexual assault occur between two people who are in a relationship with each other?
Yes
500

The year heart-shaped boxes of chocolates were introduced

What is 1861?

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