Power and Control
Identify 1 example of male privilege
treating like a servant, making all the big decisions, acting like the master of the castle, being the one to define mens and womens roles, etc.
Domestic Violence is an anger management problem
Myth: It is a power and control issue.
What is it called when a partner uses name calling
emotional abuse
A relationship must have ________ in order to be healthy.
equality
What holiday is in November
Thanksgiving
Using ____ is when a person makes their partner afraid through gestures, looks, actions like smashing things, destroying property, or displaying weapons
Intimidation
Intimate partners include: spouse, former spouse, living or having lived as if a spouse, having a pet. having a child in common, or current sexual relationship, or past/current dating relationship.
True
______ violence is when a partner engages in isolation and/or controlling the actions or behaviors of another person through intimidation/manipulation of the individual.
emotional/verbal/mental or psychological
What is it called when you and your partner are able to split household chores that both individuals feel is equal.
shared responsibility
The most popular flavor of ice cream in the US is ___
chocolate
Name 3 tactics from the power and control wheel
using intimidation, using emotional abuse, using isolation, minimizing/denying/blaming, using children, using male privilege, using economic abuse, and using coercion/threats.
The cycle of abuse/violence includes the following phases: honeymoon phase, tension building phase, perceiving disrespect phase, blow up phase.
True
What are 2 examples of sexual violence
physical force to make any adult or child perform or witness any sexual act against their will.
Healthy communication includes
Using I Statements
How many unexcused absence are you allowed before getting discharged?
3 with the 4th resulting in discharge
Explain how Power and Control is used in domestic violence
Batterers' use power and control to have "the upper hand" in their relationship. They believe they have the right to utilize the tactics on the wheel to maintain their power and control over their partner
Characteristics of ______ _______ ______ include but is not limited to: Little or no concern for the consequences of their behavior, control over the victim, recurrent and escalating behavior, failure to take responsibility for their violent behaviors.
Domestic Violence Batterers'
Who ever makes the most money gets the final say in financial decisions, withholding money from partner, giving partner an allowance
Financial Abuse
Arguments/Conflict in a relationship do not lead to divorce, its the lack of ____ ____ skills that lead to divorce.
conflict resolution
____ is the keyword searched the most on google.
youtube
In the Telling Amy Story, Vince controlled who Amy worked with, would not allow her to drive herself to work, and started arguments as she was leaving for work - what do you call this?
Using Isolation
Explain the impact Drugs/Alcohol has on domestic violence
Alcohol and drugs do not cause domestic violence. Domestic violence is a choice. Many abusers will make sure they have alcohol or drugs on hand, in order to use them as an excuse for their actions. Abusers will also claim their actions resulted because they could not have the alcohol or drugs.
This form of violence is any unwanted touch, aggressive or assaultive behavior
Physical Abuse
what does Responsible Parenting look like
Sharing parental responsibilities, being a positive non-violent parent role model
On average, ___ number of people choke to death on ballpoint pens
100