Eleanor Review

Emotions and Feelings

100

What is one way we can express how we are feeling to others 

I Messages 

I am feeling _____ because _______ and you can help me by _________.

200

Name one way to relax when experiencing a negative emotion

Talk to Someone

Take a Deep breath

Practice a Hobby

300

True or False: Negative Emotions Can't Hurt You

True! 

400

Our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are all _________. 

Connected

500

Give an example of how changing a negative thought to a more positive thought can make you feel better. 

• Changing negative thought “that’s so creepy” to positive thought “it’s just a tiny harmless thing” makes us feel calm and safe

Playdates and Good Host

100

The guest is always ______. 

Right 

200

What are some of the rules for a playdate 

• Put away toys that cannot be shared.
• The guest is always right and should choose the activities.
• Speak politely to avoid any conflict.

Be loyal to the guest by never leaving them alone or inviting someone who wasn’t originally invited

300

True or False: When you are hosting a playdate you get to choose the activities

False

400

What are some of the steps to being a good host 

•  When the guest arrives, introduce them to anyone they do not know.
•  Give the guest a tour (if held at home).
• Ask if guest is hungry or thirsty (if held at home)
• Ask guest what they want to do

500

What are some examples of not being polite or loyal to a guest

-bragging

-leaving guest alone

-doing what you want

-letting someone else join who wasnt invited

Friends

100

Friends share common ______.

Interests

200

What are the characteristics of a good friendship 

1. common interest

2. share secrets

3. fix arguments

4. shared and equal

5. care

6. loyalty

300

Find a common interest by _______ a fact and _____ a fact

Getting

Giving

400

What are the rules for trading information

1. find a common interest

2. don't be a conversation hog

3. don't be an interviewer

4. dont be too silly 

500

what is it called when you  “put yourself in someone else’s shoes”

perspective taking

Bonus

100

What is your favorite way to make yourself feel better when experiencing a negative emotion?

200

What was your favorite part of coming to CMI this year?

300

Name two people you like to spend time with

400

What are the steps for getting rid of items

• Make “keep” and “get rid” of piles
• Think about why it is important to keep certain items and what you will do with that item in the future. If there is no need for an item in the future, it is time to get rid of it!
• For items that aren’t important to keep but are hard to part ways with, take a picture to remember it!
• Remind yourself that it’s hard to get rid of things that we have memories with and that it’s ok to feel upset and angry but that those negative feelings will pass.

500

What are the rules for completing homework

• Sit in special homework spot
• Fill out homework planner
• Start homework and follow planner
• Take our time
• Check over homework and look for/correct any mistakes
• Tell my parents when homework planner is completed
• Get a reward if homework is done independently and carefully