Expected/Unexpected
What should you do
Friends
Big Deal or Little Deal
Feelings
100

You need to use the restroom, but your teacher says, "You have to stay in the classroom. Can you wait until the next break." You decide not to listen and go to the restroom anyways.

What is unexpected

100
You keep forgetting to do your homework.
Write down your homework.
100
Your friend accidentally spilled their milk, what can you do to help them?
Help them clean it up.
100
My milk is spoiled. (Big deal or Little Deal) What should I do?
What is little deal.
100
I cannot find my homework. I know I did it!
What is sad or worried.
200
If you are angry, you can ask your teacher for a break.
What is expected
200
If someone is being mean to you. What should you do?
Ask them to stop and if that doesn't work then go to a teacher for help.
200
You want to play with a friend at recess. What should you do?
say, "Can you play with me?"
200
I forgot something in the lunch line. (Big Deal or Little Deal) What should I do?
What is little deal? I can ask to go get it.
200

James stepped on the back of Chris's shoes on purpose in line.

What is mad. (Use your words to tell him to stop. Teachers will help him)

300

Talking to a friend while they are working quietly on an assignment.

What is unexpected.

300
During recess, you see someone being bullied.
Tell the bully to stop and if that doesn't work, ask the teacher for help.
300
You want to play with someone, but they say, NO!
Ask another friend.
300
Someone is being mean to me and I do not know what to do...
What is big deal. Bonus Fist Bump: What should you say or do?
300
There is a test today and I didn't study!!!
What is nervous or scared.
400

Refusing to do work because it is too hard.

What is unexpected.


Bonus points for whole group for what you can do to fix the situation.

400
My classwork is way too hard for me to do.
Ask a friend or teacher for help.
400
Someone is calling you names that you do not like.
Ask them to stop.


Bonus points for whole group: What is one coping strategy that you could use if you are upset?

400
My pencil broke!
Little deal
400
I lost at the game I am playing.  How do I feel?
Upset/Sad/Not Happy


Bonus Points for whole group: What is one coping strategy that you can use.

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