Advice On How To Be Successful Like Emma
Daddy
Responsibility Power
Social Skills/Decisions
Unhelpful Thoughts / Helpful Thoughts
100

How is Emma making better decisions?

Bonus (500): Can Emma listen the first time. 

Doing what is asked by the second time. 

Bonus: yes!!!

100

My nickname is (blank), daddy's nickname is (blank).

Emma : Bean

Daddy : Donut

100

You break a vase and you want to tell a lie, but you tell them the (blank) and that's being responsible. 

truth
100

I notice 2 of my friends are going to get ice cream and I invite myself, is this ok? 

No, only if they invite you/me.  

100

My friend's playing with a different friend and she is not friends with me anymore so I should not be friends with her anymore.

Is this a helpful thought?

Bonus (200): What would be a helpful thought?

No

Bonus: Maybe she doesn't want to play, but she is still friends with me. 

200

What are 2 examples of Emma being responsible?

Anything acceptable answer:

listening faster, the first time

answer by the first time

not fighting with anyone 

not arguing with adults 

being more positive, etc.

200

Sometimes I argue with my dad, but I still (blank) him.

Love 

200

Emma needs to get ready for school, what are 12 things she should be able to do on her own without being asked?

1. Wake up when alarm goes off and turn off 

2. Make bed 

3. Go Potty 

4. Brush Teeth

5. Brush Hair 

6. Deodorant 

7. Get Dressed 

8. Say Good Morning to Daddy 

9. Walk Dog in the Morning 

10. Eat Breakfast

11. Get Ready for School 

12. Contacts / Glasses 

200
My brother pushes me and I push him back, is that ok?

No!

200

My mom called my brother the sweet nickname she usually uses with me, so she loves him more. 

Is this helpful?

Bonus (200): What's a more helpful thought?

No 

Bonus: Maybe she is trying to make him feel better, but she loves us the same. 

300

What is the biggest positive change Emma has made (5000)?


Listening 

300

My favorite video game to play with dad is (blank).

Marvel / Avengers 

300

Is it responsible to take the dog out without being asked?

yes

300

I am 10 years old and sometimes I prefer to hang out with older kids, why might I be doing that? 

Bonus (100): Why is better to hang out with kids my own age?

To fit in. 

Bonus: Because then we can get to know each other better and play, play at school and find out what we have in common. 

300

My uncle is playing with his friends, but he still loves me even though he is not hanging out with me.

Is this helpful?

Bonus (200): What is a more helpful thought? 

yes 

400

What makes Emma such a good friend? 

I listen to my friends 

400

My favorite thing about my relationship with daddy is (blank).

Playing with him 

400

When I am frustrated about a situation, I am responsible for the way I (blank) about it and how I (blank). 

think 

feel or behave 

400

You see a jar of candy and you're really hungry. You take a piece. What do you do? Eat it or put it back? 

Bonus (200): What decision would have made this situation even better?


Put it back.

Bonus: Not have taken a piece at all!

500

Emma is smart because...

she listens to other people and listens the first time (any reasonable answer).

500

My daddy's favorite planet is (blank).

Mars

500

You have to go to bed, but you don't wanna. Do you throw a pillow or go to bed?

Go to bed

500

Some people feel they need to rush through their work. What might make them feel the need to do that?

Bonus (400): How can you get yourself to slow down?


They want to get it over with, they wanna play with their friends, they wanna have free time. 


Bonus: Take a deep breath, count to 10. Tell myself I don't have to be the first one done. 

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