Social Anxiety Traps
This thinking trap makes your mind get stuck on the idea that everything will be perfect!
What is Expecting Perfection?
True or False: Filling someone else's bucket helps fill your bucket, too.
True!
People who have this Love Language feel valued when people give them hugs and high fives
This was the name of our Flexible Thinking superheroes!
What was the Flex-Ables?!
This is Dr. Ki's favorite color.
What is green?
This thinking trap stops you from trying new things because it makes your brain get stuck on the idea that it won't go well.
What is It's Going to End Badly?
Name 2 ways you can fill someone else's bucket
Saying something nice, helping someone, making something for someone, being a good friend
People who have this Love Language feel valued when sometime gives them a present that shows they were thinking about them.
What is Receiving Gifts?
Name an example of when you or your classmates were flexible in your thinking.
Tell me!
The most important thing I learned in Group this year was:
You tell me!
This thinking trap makes you think that you're always the one to blame when something goes wrong.
What is It's All My Fault?
Name 2 examples of Bucket Dipping.
Saying or doing unkind things, Refusing to help, Failing to show respect or being intentionally disrespectful, Bullying
Someone with this Love Language feels valued when people tell them nice things that are true about them.
What is Words of Affirmation?
Give one example of a small problem
Example: something that can be solved quickly by yourself
This is the definition of bullying.
What is unwanted, aggressive behavior with a real or perceived power imbalance that is repeated, over time.
This is how many thinking traps there are.
What is four?
True or False: Dipping into someone else's bucket will fill your bucket.
False
People who have this Love Language appreciate spending time doing meaningful things with their friends and family.
What is Quality Time?
This is a different thought we can think instead of: only the rules I make apply.
What is: I can try to play by someone else's rules and be flexible.
This is how we define a big problem.
This thinking trap makes you rigid and makes you follow rules that only you know.
What is Inflexible Rules?
Take responsibility! Name one way that you've dipped into someone's bucket this school year.
Earn an Honesty card, too!
People with this Love Language feel valued when others help them with things.
What is Acts of Service?
Take Responsibility! Name one time this school year that you refused to be flexible!
Earn an Honesty card, too!
This is how we define a small problem.
It can be solved on your own and quickly.